long story short: me and my ex broke up in summer 09 because lack of communication. we havent talked since, but we started talking just last month. i realized that i miss him, i miss us, i regret letting him go so easily, and im remembering everything i loved about him and i want him back!

were good friends now. he considers me as a best friend. but we flirt nonstop. when we talk on myspace and text he constantly tells me all these sweet things and he puts hearts<3 it feels like we’re together again because we hang out alot at school, and talk on the phone pretty much everyday for hours. im starting to fall for him again. i just dont know what to do. spring break is pretty much over and i get to see him at school on monday.

WHAT TO DO!?!?!?!?!?!
honest answers please, thanks!<3
-people say it looks like we’re back together because we hang out so much and we put lovey-dovey stuff on myspace.

- we were together for six months and were each other’s first loves, first everything! besides sex, we never went that far haha

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Heyy guys (:
im really a confused point right now about this guy.
im a 16 year old girl and this guy,chris is 19. We aren’t in a relationship, but we are "dedicated" to eachother. It’s been like this for a few months,almost a year.I could say that I love him.Or at least, I’ve fallen extremely hard for him. We met over the summer in my mom’s home country, his family and my family are close. I live in new york and he lives in vegas.I’m in high school and he’s in the air force, working.He’s the sweetest guy anyone could ever ask for.He calls me almost everyday, he texts me every morning, and etc.he tells me everything,he tells me if he’s going out with friends to a party, i do actually trust him.my family also approves and so does his.About a month ago, he started to ignore me…turned out he got in trouble with his chief AND his ex was trying to get back with him…he was distancing himself from me until the problem with his ex would be solved.I actually understand why he would distance himself from me while going through that. I did tell him though that he needed to trust me and that he could tell me anything, cuz this is the time to prove to eachother that something can maybe develop in the future, if we trust eachother. So, after that everything was okay. Then starting last week…he stopped calling again…he texted every now and then. I do understand that he’s busy, but it made me think alot.especially about the future.He also was suppose to come visit me during this spring break, but his boss didnt approve, which of course made me sad.I do understand though.Its just…i think…we’re at different point in our lives.If he doesnt call me, even is he is busy, how can I contact him and count on him if i need him during a crisis.He also opened up to me about his past….about everything…he’s only had 2 girlfriends…he told me he did cheat on his first gf when they were going thru problems…he admitted it was wrong…so i mean, people make mistakes…but how can i trust him. I feel like i have to let him go, but I can’t. I never wanna lose him. He said he would "wait for me" until i finish high school….but thats a few years ahead…i dont think we could both wait that long..but if we get together now, he’s 3,000 miles away,im in high school with the temptation of other guys,and just everything. I do care and love him, though. Dont know what to do :/

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ok. my ex and i started dating in January of "09". we just broke up in February of 2010. we had spent every day together. that is until i went away to college. i was only 17 when i got with him. he was my first love and my FIRST. we became extremely close with each others family and friends. i even fell in love with his 5 year old son. YES he has a kid. him and his baby momma broke up when his son was 3. after i went away to school the relationship became strained. about a month ago i found out that he had cheated on me with her. i broke up with him even though he tried to convince me that it will never happen again. since i would not give him another chance, i guess he decided to make things work with her. i go home for spring break in a couple of days and i have made it my goal to get him back. i need ANY advice on how to rekindle my old flame.
PLEASE: no bullsh*t about how i can do better or he will cheat again or i shouldnt come between them. these are all things i have thought deeply about and i realized that he is who i want to be with!
ok for all you negitve nancy’s thanks for the abuse. but to let you all know, she KNEW him and i were together and she is a horrible mother. she has 3 kids 3 different daddys. i can HONESTLY say that i spent more time with their son then her. he called me crying last week asking me why i dont play with him anymore.

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