I was with this guy for three months, I really liked him so much. I never felt this connection with anyone before.

I was very distant I admit but it’s because he was the first and this is my personality, it takes me time to get comfrotable with a person. And then I started becoming comfrotable. A few things happened and we decided to break it off, mostly he decided. But he said we should stay friends. I can’t stay friends, I tried but I can’t – I like him way too much to think of him as a friend only.

I tried getting back together, I thought we were going in the right direction but then he insisted it was only friendship.I decided to stop calling him, but it is so hard. It’s been two days and I cannot stop crying.

I really thought we clicked, and I think I had started to fall in love. Now I have to live with the idea that he’s probably going after some other girl and that he moved on while here I am constantly thinking about him. IT IS HARD. Especially when it is not easy to find a good guy where I come from, they’re all immature players.

For anyone who has gone through this, how long will it take for me to forget, I can’t stand this feeling anymore!!
and BTW, I can’t even make myself go out at night or anything. I know I will be in a bad mood only thinking about him, and it won’t be fair for my friends to endure with me.

And every place remind me of something about him. I would just rather be home being sad, than going out and thinking about him constantly.

How can I get over this??

Tags: bad mood, broken heart, friendship, going in the right direction, love, personality, Stay Friends, three months

I dated my ex for about a year and a half. We were each others everything. Wee never fought or had any arguments or anything like that. Everything seemed perfect. Then out of nowhere, she broke up with me. Told me she wasn’t happy, but we agreed to stay friends. We kept talking, and then suddenly I stopped hearing from her. I finally got a hold of her, and she told me she found someone else and she went off on me because I wanted us to still stay friends. We got into a fight, and she told me to never talk to her again. I don’t have any chances to see her or talk to her. I stay in touch with her cousins a bit (they want me to come back..) but that’s about it. Anyone have any advice on getting this girl back in my life?

Tags: Advice, cousins, ex girlfriend, Stay Friends

He wants to stay friends. I said no.
But now i am worried – will being friends help us get back together?

Tags: amp, being friends, Stay Friends

my girlfriends just broke up with me today. dont ask why. we have been together for 2 years. i want her back cus i lover her to death. all i want to know is what is a better strategy and why. should i just ignore her until she comes crawling back to me, or should i stay friends with her so that our friendship will make her want all of me back as her man?

Tags: ex girlfriend, Ex Girlfriends, friendship, girlfriends, Stay Friends

Hi everyone, I’m 17 and I was just wondering about this because when you see relationships fall apart on television shows some of what happens isn’t realistic and its just over dramatized and especially since I’ve never been in an a relationship before. I want to know what your true experiences were in how the breakup of your last relationship played out and how you dealt with it, did you both mutually come to the decision?, did you stay friends after wards?, and what was the reason for breaking up?

Tags: relationship, relationships, Stay Friends, television, true experiences, wards