Well over the summer holidays we couldn’t see each other because her parents are really strict and we had been dating for almost 8 months and we started to fight because of the stress on the relationship because we couldn’t see each other and she thinks that it might be best to break up but she said she still loves me. How can i prove to her that we wont fight again. We are both 16 and i really do love her.

Tags: Break, ex girlfriend, parents, relationship, stress, summer holidays

I am married for a year and my wife is in love with another man with whom she had a physical and emotional affair. She has been in love with him before we got married and I didnt know about it. She tells me she is still in love with him and cannot get any feelings towards me other than being a friend. She even finds it hard to come close to my physically. In fact, she got married to me because of several other reasons – our families were close, we were engaged for almost three years and we were good friends, she didn’t want to hurt all of us by breaking it off. But she did tell me before our wedding that she didn’t want to get married because she didnt love me. All of us thought she was not serious and convinced her that everything is going to be ok after the marriage. Also, the man she was in love with was married at that time (he is now divorced because of his affair with my wife) and she thought that she would be losing everything if she walked away from her marriage knowing her boyfriend was married. But now, with him being single again, she is having a hard time getting over the fact that she made a mistake in getting married to me. She also feels responsible for her boyfriend’s divorce and that she feels guilty about this.

This is causing a lot of stress for us. How do I make her forget her boyfriend and fall in love with me? I try to do all the small things to take care of her and she notices it, but she is unable to feel the same way towards me.

Tags: all the small things, divorce, emotional affair, Fall In Love, feelings, good friends, hard time, love, Love Man, Man Love, marriage, mistake, stress

For the past year. Things have been really rough. I lost my job and got another a month later for less money. In November i have been going to school and working 2nd shift keeping me out of the house alot. My wife who has two beautiful daughters who i raised as my own is considering a divorce in June. She says the last past year i have not been myself she says i have been mean and angry alot. At times i have been verbal abusive to her. I know my sins regret them and feel shame on myself and the things i have said. It has not been easy on me and i handled the stress terribly. I told her not to think of the bad things but to look at the whole picture and the 7 years we had together. I do love her, and I am man enough to see my faults. She says she doesnt love me anymore and wants her space. She has been staying at a friends house over the weekends. She says no matter what she does it wasnt a easy decision. She says she is miserable and feels unloved. I tell her everyday that i love her. I want to be and i know i can be a better man and a better husband than i have been. If i knew she was this unhappy i would of done something about it sooner. She says she is thinking about it but it hasnt changed her mind. I want to get her a mothers day card what should i say to show her i still love her and that im sorry for the pain? Can I save this marriage. If so how do i go about doing it?

Tags: better man, divorce, Faults, House Wife, job, Lost, love, marriage, money, mothers day card, shame, stress, unloved

Last year I lost my job. I found a job a month later. I am currently going to school during the day and working 2nd shift at night. The problem is my wife wants a divorce. We’ve been married for three years. She says since I lost my job i have been verbally abusive and i shut her out. I asked her to go to marriage counsling and I told her i would even seek counsling for my stress. She said good for u but i wont be your wife in the pic. I do love my wife and im afraid i have messed things up so long i cant do anything to save it. I know im not proud that i let myself to become like this but it hasnt been easy on me. How can i save my marriage or should i being planning for the worse

Tags: divorce, job, Lost, love, marriage, marriage counsling, stress

Complicated situation with the military. I love the mother of my daughter who is also in a complicated situation with work and such. How can I deal with her. I love her but she does not love me or at least is under too much stress to provide me with the nessary love and emotional; relationship I want. Please help.

Tags: emotional relationship, Relationship Help, stress, true love