My ex dumped me a couple of weeks ago i am so in love with her that i did the stupid mistake of bothering her about it for about a week. Just 3 days ago she said she loved me and wanted me back but she needed time still and i got excited and asked for her back and it made her really mad and she blew up and told me it was over forever because she needed to focus on school and because she was tired of my jealousy problems since she dumped me over a week ago i have found a way not to control my jealousy but how i react to it. And i want my girl back and am ready to make her happy but she says its over for good. I have been talking to alot of friends including an ex girlfriend of mine that went through the same situation with me and they all say that if i quit talking to her for good she will start to miss me and want me back. My ex said thats exactly what happened to her and thinks its what is going on here. Can anyone please help and tell me a good way to get her back? i love this girl so much and just want to make her happy and love her like never before. Im just really scarred that since she told me its over for good that it really is also valentines day is coming up soon and i know she loves panda bears and i was going to send her one with a rose and spray it with her favorite cologne of mine. Is this a bad idea? im not trying to bribe her back its just i haven’t talked to her and wont but i want her to know i still care and want her back. Please help

Tags: bad idea, cologne, Control, ex girlfriend, Focus, Friends, jealousy, love, panda, panda bears, rose, stupid mistake

I cheated on my wife after 13 years of marriage with a woman that was 20 years older than my wife. It was not just a one night stand it was meetings ofter work. I told my wife about the affair because I felt so bad afterwords. I know that I made the worst mistake of my life and that I love my wife more than words can say. It has been 3 years and thank god my wife let me come back home, we have even had a son since the affair but she says that she still does not trust me and that she still has anger and resentment towards me for it. She says that she wants answers as to why it happened and what she did so wrong that made me do it. It was nothing she did it was my stupid mistake and I did it because I thought I could get away with it and no one would get hurt. I have told her that I promise her it will never happen again but she still thinks that I don’t love her but I do. I have never cried so much in my life as I do when it comes to this. I feel like I have failed my wife and kids and am about to loose the only people in the world that ever meant any thing to me. Please help.

Tags: 13 years, 3 years, Advice, anger, god, Love Words, marriage, mistake of my life, my wife and kids, night stand, Promise, resentment, stupid mistake

I was with my ex for nearly a year. However towards the end, we made a stupid mistake and she became pregnant. Due to our age and other circumstances, i knew that it would not have been possible to raise the child. She wanted to keep it though. However for fear of losing me, she went through with the abortion. This made her hate me. She lost all feelings for me and although we tried working through it… she said she couldnt do it anymore. This killed me as we were really in love and already knew we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together.
For comfort, she went to her colleagues house most nights. And one thing led to another and 3 weeks later they were in a relationship. This killed me as i was trying to get her back. However just before they started their relationship we shared an extremely passionate kiss and she said she missed me and if it wasnt for what happened, she would still be with me. She told me she is over what happened and doesnt blame me anymore.

Recently we have become very close friends. She stops over at my house on the way home from her boyfriends for a chat. We are on the same course at university and have lunch together or go out shopping together when uni is finished. She is always wanting to chill with me and everyone says things are looking good for me. However she is still with her boyfriend and i found out they booked to go on holiday in june 2009… they booked this 2 weeks after being together!!

just wondering if anyone has any tips on how i can win her back. She calls me all the time and we seem to do everything together that we are allowed to do without cheating… (lots of hugging and kissing on the cheek)… her boyfriend doesnt know she even talks to me let alone meeting up cos he wont allow her to.. She is a girl that needs lots of attention and i have heard from her friends that she is having problems with him cos he wont give her any attention.

Does she really like this guy or is it just a rebound.. and is it looking good for me???

Tags: abortion, Boyfriends, Cheating, cheek, circumstances, close friends, colleagues house, ex girlfriend, fear, feelings, Led, Lost, love, lunch, passionate kiss, rebound, relationship, rest of our lives, shopping, stupid mistake, Uni

I was with my gf for over a year. We broke up in April of this year. Tonight, I’m depressed because I’m really in deep thought about her. Is there any relief of the pain? Does the pain in your heart from a breakup ever end? Is there anyway to make the time that it takes to heal quicker? How long does it take for your heart to heal?

P.S. I’m 16 years old. I still love her a lot. She was the one who dumped me in April.
She dumped me because of I stupid mistake I made which I regret doing.

Tags: deep thought, gf, heart, stupid mistake