My husband & i have been married for about 1 year & 6 months.Bt we have been together for 3 years. I got married when i was 17 & he was 20.Im 18 almost 19 now & he’s 21.We dont have children.And well i feel as if im not "in love" with him anymore.I love him & always will bt im not "in love" he’s been a good husband although before we got married he cheated on me so many times & he was abusive.& i thought i had gotten over that.But i haven’t.it still hurts what he did & i can’t trust him ive tried for over a year & i just can’t.& it has caused a lot of problems between me & him.He’s not abusive no more & hasn’t cheated bt when he promises me that he will never do that again i just dont believe him.& lately the sex is boring.i dnt even want to have sex with him at all.& also iv been talkn to someone new.He makes me feel so good inside.I can talk to him about anything.& i just dont have that with my husband.i have never considered him "my best friend" he is very controlsive & so i tend to do things behind his back.I dont want to hurt him if i do choose to leave him bt i dont want to regret it neither.Plz Help. idk if its just because im young & want to experience something new or if im just really not in love with my husband anymore.
Tags: 3 years, best friend, hasn, love quot, Promises, T Amp
1) Don’t try to bring up the thought of getting back if she broke up with me.
2) Be good friend.
3) Be positive
4) Don’t talk to her alot? Or don’t be as available?
Can anyone give me any more ideas/things?
Tags: alot, good friend, T Amp
I have been with this man for almost 2 years. He has never worked, I fully support him financially. He has cheated, lied, stolen from me, and NOW he has hit me. I am an extremely intelligent, college educated woman. I come from a household with 2 parents, and neither were abusive. This man doesn’t make me feel good, he verbally abuses me, disrespects me, downgrades me, and I still try to make it work. When he breaks up with me, I’m devestated and wait for him to call. In all actuality I have no idea what I am still holding on to. We fight constantly, there are no more good times. I have anxiety 24/7, and yet and still I can’t turn and walk away. When I think about him not being a part of my life it’s almost like I cant breathe, but then in my mind I know I don’t want to be with him anymore. PLEASE DONT BE JUDGEMENTAL, I just need some advice…..
Tags: Abusive Relationship, actuality, anxiety, devestated, downgrades, educated woman, good times, household, parents, T Amp
it would be if he were to come back one more time…..what would you say……wouldn’t it be sadder knowing he would still be dead…..and it ends with the line…..something something but how I loved you so.
Tags: love, poem, Sad, T Amp
I have been w/my BF for almost 4 years now. A relationship is suppoe to be about compromise so I understood that he doesn’t like to go out and party/club w/me bcus thats not what he likes so I go w/my sis & friends time to time. But there have been a several times he went to Kickbacks/club w/his cousin & friends w/out inviting me. Why would he not do things to make me happy and invite me places to hang out with his friends but he can do it with them and disrespect me? Am i over reacting? Or isn’t that not Fair to me? i do everything to make him happy but he doesnt do that with me. I dont want to do this anymore……is it time to let go?
Tags: amp, bf, compromise, cousin, disrespect, kickbacks, party club, relationship, several times, T Amp
