Married two years he left me over a month ago. I feel he was angry at me a lot and often showed a horrible temper yelling pushing me and some throwing things around. He says he yells cuz I don’t listen and that I’m not soft enough and call him on everything and make him feel like I’m his mom. Yes I have faults and probably was snappy at him a few times. But the abusive stuff I don’t think should happen! But I always apologized and took on the blame to stop his threats of leaving me.
Well he left all I can think of how much I miss him. And that I’ll never find anyone again. Yet I’m very attractive and have a good job friends family etc
He was often mad I wouldn’t have his kid. He says his dream is to have a family (yet before marriage he said as long as i have u)
I always say stop yelling and threatening to leave me for six months and we can have a kid. He never has.
Yesterday I spoke to him more and said I wanted a family too but need us to be stronger together. He has texted me back saying "ok to get me back you must have a kid in next six months. Then he will be mine forever.". He said he isn’t giving up on his dream. I said back to him I wanted to think about it and he wrote back "what part of I want a kid asap don’t you understand?" he
Said fine think about it but that he will keep looking for a replacement for me in the meantime. He went on a dating site two weeks after leaving me.
This could be my only chance at a kid I’m 39…. I know it doesn’t sound right but I really fear losing him
Help!
Tags: bad idea, Bad Marriage, dating site, Faults, friends family, good job, Lot, marriage, mom, six months, Snappy, temper
He is in a "rehab" kind of thing I am not too sure on what it is about. He is stationed in England. We have been broken up for two years and just havent finalized it yet. He is in this place getting "help" with I think Alcohol and his temper. He still has 4 years left with the military and they are sending him home for good. I didnt know they could do that. He said its not a dishonorable discharge so what else could it be? We have a daughter together and I was wondering if it would be easy for me to get all the rights to her with him just getting visitation? He wrote me a very threatening email before he went into this "rehab" I sent the email to his MSgt and shortly after he was in this program. Do you think a judge would find him fit to have a 2 year old in his custody? I just need peace knowing he isnt a threat against me in court
Tags: alcohol, dishonorable discharge, england, Fit, msgt, Partial Custody, peace, quot, temper, threatening email
Anyone have any advice for me? On how to get your exback i haven’t spoken to him all week i have ignored him and i stoped trying to contact him for a week now. Because like two weeks ago he brokeup with me on a tuesday and i tryed talking to him and he just seemed like he didnt want to but he did and he seems like he still cares and he said that he loved me and all im just so confused. I honestly think and his parents think its because of his band ever since he has been in it he just ended up making it his life and his number one and two of his friends are bad influences and his parents are really upset because they miss me and my daughter and they love us and they still want to see us and want us to visit them. And his mom was crying and gave me a huge saying she wishes some day i become her daughter in law. Well anyways iam not sure when he will talk to me idk what to do because i thought i blew it on halloween because his band had a show at the same place as my friends band and he didnt really think it was a good idea for me to go because he was afraid i was going to cause a scene and well after he played i tryed talking to him and he just freaked out yelling at me and so on monday his mom came over to talk to me because i was so upset about what happened and i was upset because he wrote to me saying he was on the fence of things until that happen so idk what the hell to do i love him we were together for almost 2years our 2 year is suppose to be this 11th coming up =/ and i have been talking to his mom and she said that she and his father talked to him and they said that he will contact you and they told him to comly talk to me bc. he does have a temper problem. And i just want him back even if he does have issues who doesnt? idk i really miss him and i feel like he was my soul mate and i feel like i mest up because he felt like things werent going to move forward b.c. i didnt have a job yet and i have been trying to find one but its just to dam hard now days to find one and we were suppose to move out together he gave me a promise ring for our one year and he said he has never done that before and iam his longest relationship so i need advice QUICK! on How to get him back because i really feel like and his parents feel like he is going backwards down a bad path again and i want him to see that iam here and iam going to be here and help him no matter what but idk i really want him back. Sorry i hope yous got some kind of sense of this. Right now i might be working at a hair salon soon and i just want to try to better my life and i want him to see some how iam positive and independent now i just want him back before i guess its to late….=/
Tags: cares, Ex Boyfriend, exback, fence, friends band, halloween, hell, job, love, mom, parents, soul mate, Stoped, temper, Tryed
I have been dating my husband for 8 years. We have been married for 2 years. When we first started dating she would get drunk and call me names. Eventually I forgave her and we got along fine. Then she started talking about my husband’s ex-gf all the time, how wonderful she was etc. It really hurt my feelings because I felt like she was trying to tell me that I was not a good daughter-in-law. At are wedding she got drunk and her wedding toast was basically "I have never liked *****, she is not good enough for my son". She brought a bottle of bourbon from home to the reception and was spotted drinking from it by several guests. I try to always be nice to her and I always get her birthday presents, x-mas presents and thank you notes. I never lose my temper with her although sometimes I cry. Now we are getting along again but I can almost FEEL her hatred for me. Whenever I am around her I feel scared and nervous. What do I do? I love my husband but if it were up to me I would never see that woman again.
Tags: 101 Names, 8 years, bourbon, ex gf, feelings, hatred, mother in law, temper, wedding toast
Heres the deal I have a bit of a temper, I can be a bitch and on top of that I have a very hard time having sex because it hurts really bad so we dont have sex hardly ever. The thing that got me to really realize how much he is starting to hate me is he is planning a trip to vegas with his friends and doesnt care that i cant go. i need to know what i can do to get him to fall for me again and make him love me and obssess over me again…i decided even though sex hurts I need to do it cuz men need sex right? plz help me
Tags: bitch, Cuz, hard time, having sex, love, planning a trip, Sex 101, temper
