

Story goes, I got to know a girl that I was highly attracted to, and she also was attracted to me. Started dating, for a while, begin to fall in love with her, she fell in love with me. Well, I am in a hard spot right now. I have been like this for months and I don’t know what to do anymore. Everything through summer went fine, loved each other, had fun and I was always thinking of her. Well, one day, I woke up and felt completely different, like anxious/scared/worried for no reason that I know of. And, it has felt to me that I have just lost all my interest in my girl. I lost everything. It was like the love that was in my heart just flipped the switch and shut it off.
Detail-Over the summer, all we did was want to talk to each other, texting, calls, in person, myspace, everything, and I could never get her off my mind, it was so fun and exciting. I loved thinking about her all the time. And, everything we do is planned, we plan our calls, we plan us meeting, we plan our dates, everything. My school counselor told me that I am getting really bored and tired of the relationship because all of the spontanious part of the relationship is gone. Well, then I talked to my youth pastor at church, and since me and my girl have been doing "things", not sex, but sexual acts, it is because I am not ready for them, I noticed that when we would hang out, that was like the "goal" for us at that time. Is this the consequence? I still can’t get her off my mind, am I being overwhelmed of our relationship? I don’t understand why I am still wanting to be with her all the time, and when I do, I feel better, we have quit sexual acts, now they only happen once in a while, and now we are taking more time apart at school and seeing each other, I feel better. But, why do I feel like shit when I am home and thats all I can think about, me losing interest in her?
Can this be fixed?
I would like to add. It confuses me when I still enjoy making her happy, by gifts, jokes, being myself? ANd she also enjoys it?
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