There is this boy that I swear I am in love with. The problem is, I lie to him a lot, and I think its so I can make him pay attention to me. The problem is, now its coming back to bite me. See, he got jumped a few nights ago and he’s trying to find out who did it. Today, I was trying to see if he would defend me, so I texted him from my phone pretending to be my ex boyfriend, and going on about how he makes me cry and what not. Now he thinks that my ex has something to do with it, and he’s having him investigated by the police. I don’t want to admit to him that I lied, because I might lose him, but I don’t know what will happen when my ex denies sending those texts from my phone, and I’m in between them. What do I do??

Tags: Lot, love, texts, truth

He dumped me three months ago over a bad fight.. I contact him once in a while to ask to get back together and he still says no, but always is friendly and responds to my texts.. What is the best way to get back a cancer? Leave him alone, or keep telling him how much I care and how Sorry I am?

Tags: cancer, texts, three months

I ask because he has made NO further attempts to contact her; I gather she is on holiday (at home, and he is working) but as far as I know, he has NOT contacted her. Assume this is the truth.

So – was their meeting last week just coincidence?

History is:

In Feb this year I caught my husband cheating with a woman for a whole year and apparently he was on the verge of leaving me for her but we worked through it. He swore that was it with her. Although he said he had loved her. She sent me all his messages and texts and IMs and in these, he expressed his love for her, said he didn’t want to be with me, I was sexless and cold, but SHE was vibrant, sexy and made him feel loved and able to love again.

After I found out, he cut her off and was horrible to her. He also denied he "meant" what he said in the years’ worth of those messages. BUT –

He went back to her many many times over 6 months, after he promised me that he would cut her out of his life for good – most recently in August when he went to her work, asked the guard to call her down, she got into his van to hear him out ..

The next thing you know, my husband is arrested for ‘sexual assault’ in September. He was finally released without charge 2 weeks ago, and that was that, but they have been warned to stay away from each other.

PRESENT DAY:

As some of you know, lately (last 2 weeks) he has watched her from his work van as she walks from her office to the station; he DOES genuinely have jobs in that street but he HAS watched her as opposed to hiding behind a newspaper as he sits in his van/looking away, etc.

This has happened 3 times in 3 weeks, and each time, he has stared, and she has walked on, not stopping.

THIS TIME, SHE STOPPED AND THEY TALKED.

I can’t believe it. If the sexual assault arrest has not made him hate her WHAT THE F*CK WILL???

This is what they talked about, which I know because his partner driver "felt I should know" – he was not there but was nearby -

Admitted to her that he HAD indeed been waiting for her to approach him all those times he was parked near her work, and asked why she had been "running past" him!
Apparently he "forgave" her for having him arrested.
He wished her a happy belated birthday.
He asked how her new house was going.
Oh this is good; he asked why he "could not find her" on Facebook.
He asked her ‘can I trust you now?’ (!!)
He said ‘will you let me wave at you if I drive past you?’
She told him another guy had got obsessed with her lately and he said "See I told you you were dangerous" – what does that mean?

Please can someone decipher the things he said to her,AND tell me why would he give her the time of day?

This was last Monday but even on Tuesday, apparently he passed her in his truck and beeped & waved at her!

I am concerned as to what he plans next.

Tags: attempts, Caught Cheating, ck, coincidence, Contact, Husband Cheating, ims, jobs, love, Mistress, present day, quot, sexual assault, texts, truth, verge

I was with my boyfriend from the time I was 17 til I was 20 and then he decided that things weren’t working for him anymore and he broke up with me. About 8 months later he got with someone else and they were together for about a year and then they got married. They were only married about 6 months before the girl decided she wanted someone else and they got a divorce and she moved to another state. About 7 months after that he got back with me and we have been together 4 months now. Ok so at first he was being real sweet all the time, he was there for me when I needed him and he would send me little texts all day long saying how much he loved and missed me. Well about 2 months into it he totally changed and started being really mean and I didn’t understand why. So we finally talked about it and he pretty much made it sound like if his ex wife would leave him for someone else then so would I. I haven’t been able to make him see that in the whole time we were broken up hes the one I wanted and I stayed with him for over 3 years and I never wanted to break up. But hes telling me that even if I were to marry him he probably still wouldn’t believe that I loved him and that I was going to stay. So what am I supposed to do? Why do I have to pay for the things other people have done to him when I’ve never hurt him?

Tags: 3 years, 4 months, 7 months, divorce, texts, whole time

my ex boyfriend just recently broke up with me to go with another girl.now we have naw naw im not going to say all that its a looooooooong story.now im going to tell wat just recently recently happened.i asked him to be ma friend and he kept saying no so i kept on asking him until i said he’s not going to give in.so like some days after that .he called so i thought he was over my best friend’s house alexis and she was calling me from his phone.but it was him.so he said he was sorry for ignoring ma texts and calls.and he apologized some more.then he said do i accept hisz apology and i did.so then we were friends.then some days after that that a few days ago or a week ago i asked him did he tell my friend jasmine wat me and him did.so his friend nick said no this nick.so after that he said bye nick didnt say that my ex did.so i asked like 5 times why are mad why are you mad .so he kept saying bye and i tried calling him and texting saying hi and thtat’s all i put and he hasnt texted or called me back.do u think if i stop calling him and texting for a while he will call back or text back saying sorry.

Tags: 13 years, alexis, Apology, best friend, few days, friend nick, jasmine, texts