I ask because he has made NO further attempts to contact her; I gather she is on holiday (at home, and he is working) but as far as I know, he has NOT contacted her. Assume this is the truth.

So – was their meeting last week just coincidence?

History is:

In Feb this year I caught my husband cheating with a woman for a whole year and apparently he was on the verge of leaving me for her but we worked through it. He swore that was it with her. Although he said he had loved her. She sent me all his messages and texts and IMs and in these, he expressed his love for her, said he didn’t want to be with me, I was sexless and cold, but SHE was vibrant, sexy and made him feel loved and able to love again.

After I found out, he cut her off and was horrible to her. He also denied he "meant" what he said in the years’ worth of those messages. BUT –

He went back to her many many times over 6 months, after he promised me that he would cut her out of his life for good – most recently in August when he went to her work, asked the guard to call her down, she got into his van to hear him out ..

The next thing you know, my husband is arrested for ’sexual assault’ in September. He was finally released without charge 2 weeks ago, and that was that, but they have been warned to stay away from each other.

PRESENT DAY:

As some of you know, lately (last 2 weeks) he has watched her from his work van as she walks from her office to the station; he DOES genuinely have jobs in that street but he HAS watched her as opposed to hiding behind a newspaper as he sits in his van/looking away, etc.

This has happened 3 times in 3 weeks, and each time, he has stared, and she has walked on, not stopping.

THIS TIME, SHE STOPPED AND THEY TALKED.

I can’t believe it. If the sexual assault arrest has not made him hate her WHAT THE F*CK WILL???

This is what they talked about, which I know because his partner driver "felt I should know" – he was not there but was nearby -

Admitted to her that he HAD indeed been waiting for her to approach him all those times he was parked near her work, and asked why she had been "running past" him!
Apparently he "forgave" her for having him arrested.
He wished her a happy belated birthday.
He asked how her new house was going.
Oh this is good; he asked why he "could not find her" on Facebook.
He asked her ‘can I trust you now?’ (!!)
He said ‘will you let me wave at you if I drive past you?’
She told him another guy had got obsessed with her lately and he said "See I told you you were dangerous" – what does that mean?

Please can someone decipher the things he said to her,AND tell me why would he give her the time of day?

This was last Monday but even on Tuesday, apparently he passed her in his truck and beeped & waved at her!

I am concerned as to what he plans next.

Tags: attempts, Caught Cheating, ck, coincidence, Contact, Husband Cheating, ims, jobs, love, Mistress, present day, quot, sexual assault, texts, truth, verge

I was with my boyfriend from the time I was 17 til I was 20 and then he decided that things weren’t working for him anymore and he broke up with me. About 8 months later he got with someone else and they were together for about a year and then they got married. They were only married about 6 months before the girl decided she wanted someone else and they got a divorce and she moved to another state. About 7 months after that he got back with me and we have been together 4 months now. Ok so at first he was being real sweet all the time, he was there for me when I needed him and he would send me little texts all day long saying how much he loved and missed me. Well about 2 months into it he totally changed and started being really mean and I didn’t understand why. So we finally talked about it and he pretty much made it sound like if his ex wife would leave him for someone else then so would I. I haven’t been able to make him see that in the whole time we were broken up hes the one I wanted and I stayed with him for over 3 years and I never wanted to break up. But hes telling me that even if I were to marry him he probably still wouldn’t believe that I loved him and that I was going to stay. So what am I supposed to do? Why do I have to pay for the things other people have done to him when I’ve never hurt him?

Tags: 3 years, 4 months, 7 months, divorce, texts, whole time

my ex boyfriend just recently broke up with me to go with another girl.now we have naw naw im not going to say all that its a looooooooong story.now im going to tell wat just recently recently happened.i asked him to be ma friend and he kept saying no so i kept on asking him until i said he’s not going to give in.so like some days after that .he called so i thought he was over my best friend’s house alexis and she was calling me from his phone.but it was him.so he said he was sorry for ignoring ma texts and calls.and he apologized some more.then he said do i accept hisz apology and i did.so then we were friends.then some days after that that a few days ago or a week ago i asked him did he tell my friend jasmine wat me and him did.so his friend nick said no this nick.so after that he said bye nick didnt say that my ex did.so i asked like 5 times why are mad why are you mad .so he kept saying bye and i tried calling him and texting saying hi and thtat’s all i put and he hasnt texted or called me back.do u think if i stop calling him and texting for a while he will call back or text back saying sorry.

Tags: 13 years, alexis, Apology, best friend, few days, friend nick, jasmine, texts

My boyfriend and I were together for about 10 months. I broke up with him 3 weeks ago. I didn’t want to, but he stopped talking to me so much. He would text me about once every week for the past month. He lives 4 hours away and hasn’t come to see me in 3 months because we have both been busy. However, he told me he would come see me 2 months ago and we made plans. He didn’t come. Two days before he was supposed to come he tells me that he doesn’t have the money because he just bought a “crotch rocket.” I was upset with him at first but I just let it slide. Then we made plans for the next month. One week before he was supposed to come, he tells me he can’t because he is busy. Once again, I am disappointed. I can’t go up and see him because I don’t have a car (I’m in college and he is a few years older). Then, he stops talking to me, as I mentioned earlier. I’m so in love with him so I didn’t want to give up on him but I wondered “what is going on?” I start thinking that maybe he’s found someone else or he just doesn’t want me anymore, or something like that. So, eventually I just break up with him because he kept telling me “I’ll come see you. I’ll talk to you more….” but would never do it. I didn’t even get an explanation. A week goes by and he doesn’t try to talk to me at all.
I then met a guy that I was kind of attracted to but he wasn’t the kind of guy I would want to date seriously. I was thinking that my ex and I were done for good. So, I had sex with the new guy twice. I did it because I was extremely hurt about the breakup and I thought it would help me get over my ex (it was not a smart thing to do, but I have learned my lesson to not have sex so soon after a breakup; I think everyone has to experience things before they learn). Three weeks after the breakup, my ex texts me. He says how sorry he is for everything and that he’s been having emotional problems because his grandfather was in the hospital and his aunt just found out that she has less than a year to live. I completely understood and asked if he would keep talking to me on a more regular basis, but we didn’t get back together. He asked if I had been doing things with other guys and I said no. I shouldn’t have lied though. Like 3 days later I told him that I actually had been with another guy. He got really upset and acted like I cheated on him. I knew it would hurt him but I explained how I had been feeling about him. He didn’t forgive me and told me “whatever, I hope you enjoyed it.”
So he asked me to leave him alone, and I have. I want him back though. I would never cheat on him if we were dating and I’ll never do something like that again. I honestly feel like I want to be with him for the rest of my life, so I don’t want us to be ruined forever. It makes it so difficult because we live far apart. What should I do or say to make him forgive me?

Tags: 10 months, crotch rocket, emotional problems, love, money, Money 98, texts

to put it short, me and my ex-boyfriend (long distance) were together for over a year but have been broken up for about 2 months now. he kind of changed for the worst (drugs and drinking) lately yet i still love him.. whenever he talks to me nowdays (random, short texts) he usually is just very sarcastic and doesn’t take me seriously, at least not from what i see. im a sophomore in high school and he’ll be starting his first year of college in the fall. the other night we texted eachother until about 3 in the morning and he randomly said that he missed the special moments we’ve had but then changed the subject. from what i can see anyway it appears he’s moved on but i was just wondering if you think there is ANY chance in h*ll of getting back together with him, with what he said the other night? ive done the begging and ive kinda just given up lately.. i might sound really silly but we really did love eachother alot back then and i at least dont want him to just forget about me. help!!
p.s. – towards the end of our relationship, he kind of got new friends which i think is the main reason for his recent drug and drinking marathon – he used to do that stuff before we went out, but he knew i disapproved, so he quit but now he’s started again. and i just have this state of mind that he IS in college now and all he’s interested in now is some one night stands with a bunch of random girls and he is for sure going to wonder what the heck he was doing with someone over 1,000 miles away from him .. yeah

Tags: drugs, eachother, Ex Boyfriend, long distance, love, marathon, new friends, random girls, recent drug, relationship, sophomore, texts, what the heck

when she won’t answer my calls, emails, or texts? I’ve even tried calling her parents at their work, but they keep ignoring my phone calls. I’m sitting outside of her house right now in my car and I’m typing this on my blackberry. What should I say to her when she gets home from work this evening? I plan on ambushing her as soon sa she gets out of her car.

Tags: blackberry, girlfriend, Old Son, parents, phone calls, texts, Typing

Heyy guys (:
im really a confused point right now about this guy.
im a 16 year old girl and this guy,chris is 19. We aren’t in a relationship, but we are "dedicated" to eachother. It’s been like this for a few months,almost a year.I could say that I love him.Or at least, I’ve fallen extremely hard for him. We met over the summer in my mom’s home country, his family and my family are close. I live in new york and he lives in vegas.I’m in high school and he’s in the air force, working.He’s the sweetest guy anyone could ever ask for.He calls me almost everyday, he texts me every morning, and etc.he tells me everything,he tells me if he’s going out with friends to a party, i do actually trust him.my family also approves and so does his.About a month ago, he started to ignore me…turned out he got in trouble with his chief AND his ex was trying to get back with him…he was distancing himself from me until the problem with his ex would be solved.I actually understand why he would distance himself from me while going through that. I did tell him though that he needed to trust me and that he could tell me anything, cuz this is the time to prove to eachother that something can maybe develop in the future, if we trust eachother. So, after that everything was okay. Then starting last week…he stopped calling again…he texted every now and then. I do understand that he’s busy, but it made me think alot.especially about the future.He also was suppose to come visit me during this spring break, but his boss didnt approve, which of course made me sad.I do understand though.Its just…i think…we’re at different point in our lives.If he doesnt call me, even is he is busy, how can I contact him and count on him if i need him during a crisis.He also opened up to me about his past….about everything…he’s only had 2 girlfriends…he told me he did cheat on his first gf when they were going thru problems…he admitted it was wrong…so i mean, people make mistakes…but how can i trust him. I feel like i have to let him go, but I can’t. I never wanna lose him. He said he would "wait for me" until i finish high school….but thats a few years ahead…i dont think we could both wait that long..but if we get together now, he’s 3,000 miles away,im in high school with the temptation of other guys,and just everything. I do care and love him, though. Dont know what to do :/

Tags: air force, boss, different point, gf, girlfriends, Live 105, love, M 105, Met, mom, old girl, Party 105, quot, relationship, spring break, sweetest guy, texts

I have been married going on 2 years now. We have a little girl who’s a year old. He’s a firefighter so he’s gone a lot, he has been telling me for the last two days (he’s at work) that this isn’t going to work because he can’t trust me. That he’s afraid I will do something again and that will mess his life up, so he doesn’t want to chance it. When we were first married I made a lot of mistakes. I was never unfaithful so that’s not it, but I did lie about what I was doing. He was controlling and I wanted my life to stay the same, So I would lie about everything.. Hanging out with friends, going to my Parents, shopping ect. I got caught and we separated for awhile but, he said we’ll work it out as long as I work on change. And I have, I’m so proud of myself because I have cut the wrong people out and that I am actually doing what I need to do. We seemed to be doing good the last few months. Then all of the sudden.. BOOM! He texts me and tells me he can’t trust me and won’t chance it. I love him very much and our marriage means the world to me along with our family. I want this to work and marriage is hard and I understand that. What should I do? How do I show he can trust me?
I don’t want to divorce, but it seems he wants to. He comes home tomorrow am and I’m just dreading it.

Tags: boom, firefighter, home tomorrow, little girl, marriage, parents, texts

We broke up because he didnt wanna help out or pay the bills!! He claims hes changed and im missng him like crazy! He texts me and wants toget back together. Should i take him back or not.

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my ex broke up with me and i think i did nothing more den push her away i really want her back girls what would make you want to go out with your ex boyfriend. the only things that are good she is willing to talk to me but not about the break up of course she still has feelings for me and she askes me bout my life and if im going out with this specific girl and shows jealousy thats all i have so whats way or anything can i get her back imagine yourself in this position and even after i deleted off of facebook and stopped talking to her and i wrote her a front and back page letter of how she meant to me. and last time i talk to her was in person the reason for our break up is because she doesnt want to put up with the things i do like steal with my friends and basically throwing my future away i make good grades and stopped doing those things its been a month since we broke up and she still texts me once and a while. but yesterday i was telling her in person i love her still and im sorry and we can be friends as in like she can talk not friend friend cause i love her to much for dat but when i was saying dis she was not making eye contact with me she was looking somewhere else but she heard everything i said but den i asked her do you still love me and she responded "i dont know" like a lil softly like in a way i dont take it hard and so after dat she was like i dont want to talk bout this so i let her go back inside her house i went home and hour later she texted me saying r u ok and i texted back lol yea duh and she texted oh ok so wassup fool and i texted nothing kinda busy… and she said oh ok we can text later and i put ok… and she not on my facebook cause i took her off and now i need help. i really want her back
Help put what you think honestly help me to be able to get her back put details and what would make you want your ex boyfriend back plz and thankyou

Tags: Ex Boyfriend, eye contact, facebook, feelings, fool, friend cause, friend friend, girls, jealousy, last time, texts

Okay, so me and this guy have had a thing sense the beginning of the summer and we dated off and on throughout the summer and we’d break up at the stupidest things but we were always crazy about eachother and spent every second together, and he would always come back to me within the next week. Were in high school and he thought it would be hard to have a realathonship because we go to different highschools. He gets jealous really easily. But anyway about a month or so ago he broke up with me but we had been talking sense then because we still had feelings for eachother and we didnt want to have to deal with the responsibility of having a realathonship. Several weeks ago we got in a fight becasue he wouldnt text me back i guess he wasnt by his phone or something and im sort of the impatient type and i told him that i didnt even think i liked him anymore because he never responded ( i just say things like that without thinking) and he got mad and wouldnt text me back, so i guess i was annoying him and he told me just to leave him alone and not to talk to him ever again and move on because he didnt like me either. I left him alone for about a whole week, and thats been the longest time ive never talked to him before and it was really hard for me. So that weekend i was with my friend and she was like just text him and see how he is, so i texted him and he didnt reply and so i sent him really long texts of how immature he was for not talking to me and i guess i kinda over did it and he went off on me and told me how stupid i was and how he could do better then me, it really hurt me and my friends always thought he would come back to me but this time they all told me he wasnt going to and i should just get over him. all that week i was trying to get over him and not talk to him. The next weekend i was at my friends house and i was texting this guy my ex boyfriend was with and my friend was texing my ex boyfriend and they were both like you all should come over and i of course wanted to but my friend told me not to because it will just make my ex boyfriend think he can get me whenever he wants to so we ended up telling them we had better stuff to do. Later that night i texted my ex boyfriend telling him how much i cared about him and how much i wanted to be with him ( i was drunk and i dont know why i said that) and suprisingly he told me he missed me and he couldnt not have me in his life and he just caught up in highschool but he doesnt want a realathonship and we should just talk. I was really happy and so for about a week we talked and everything was good. He told me he wanted to see me and talk to me about things and i wanted to but my mom wouldnt let me. This weekend i told him that i think i might have moved on and i was confused between him and this other guy becuase he had left me for so long and i think it made him mad and he started being really short with me but he acted like it didnt bother him that i said that but he did say he cared. The next day he told me that he thinks we should just be friends,and i asked him why and he was like well you like that other guy and its just better if were friends. I asekd him why he thinks we should just talk and he said "because i started talking to other girls" i think he just says that stuff because i said taht i might like another guy so hes giving me a taste of my own medicine and trying to piss me off too (this isnt the first time he has said something like that) i was so upset and i went off on him and we got in an argument and he was saying shit like " i could hook up with so many girls if i wanted to" and he told me he was going to go back to ignoring me. We talekd it out and now i guess were gonna be friends..but it always turns into us liking eachother again. I asked him to hang out with me and my friend this weekend and he just said "maybe!" and i was like what else could you do? and he was like "hang out wiht my friends"…its like when were "talking" he is so sweet to me but when were not he is like a completely different person i think he still has feelings for me i just pissed him off by saying i liked another guy maybe becuase he told me that he started talking to other girls and thats why he wants to be friends..he always does this stuff..will someone PLEASSSEE help me im desperate and i just want him to want me back and be like he used to be with me. ive tried moving on but i cant! so any other suggestions? how can i get him to want me backk…? or do you think he will come back to me?(sorry this is so long and whoever reads this whole thing thankyou!)

Tags: eachother, Ex Boyfriend, feelings, highschools, impatient type, longest time, texts

My boyfriend and i broke up. He broke up with me, saying his feelings changed, however, he thinks they will come back he just doesnt know when. He wants to remain close friends which leads me to believe he still has feelings for me even though he says he doesnt.
I have been scowering the internet trying to find ways to get back with your ex boyfriend because i am very much in love with him and want to make things work. Deep down inside my heart i know we can get things to work again.
The only thing i have kept on reading was that if you cut off all contact with him, for example, not texting him over and over again or not texting him back when he texts you (my ex still texts me saying hey and goodnight and stuff) that he will wonder why you arent texting and in the long run HE will realize what he is missing and want you back? Is this true? has anyone first hand experienced it? If so, how long was the phase of not talking or contacting? I was planning on giving it a month and calling him on his birthday and trying to start fresh from there?
please let me know any little bits of details you know on this or any other type of approach that has worked for you in getting your ex boyfriend back.
I dont want him to see that im not texting back and answering and then just completely move on. I want him to realize what we had was amazing and miss me just as much as i am missing him now.
thanks in advanced!!!

Tags: 100 Ways, close friends, Contact, feelings, goodnight, heart, little bits, love, texts

My girlfriend and I broke up about two months ago after a year and a half. She broke up with me and since the break up we didn’t talk much and its not two months later. After not talking for two weeks she texts to see how things are going? She says she misses my family and stuff so what do I do? How do I know if I can get her back what should I be doing?

Tags: ex girlfriend, girlfriend, girls, I 98, Misses, texts

He broke up with me because he didn’t see a future but he has done this before and always come back because he missed me.. But this time he hasn’t come back.. i know he wants to be with me because he still texts me. He admits he still has feelings for me but can’t act upon them because he doesn’t see a future.. I’ve hung out with him since then and we’re perfect together and have so much fun and there are no problems when we’re together.. What do i do now besides of course move on. I want him back.

Tags: course move, Ex Boyfriend, feelings, Hung, texts

Me and My ex broke up about 2 months ago and i loved him so much and cried over him for weeks even though it was all my fault and now all of a sudden he texts me and calls me he used to have a girlfriend but now i guess he dosent cuase he would always text her and now all he dose is text and call me and one time we where texting and he said he love me and i said i love you 2 and then he said how do you know and i said well how do you know love me and he said becuase my heart belongs to you and i dont know i have really strong feeling for you so i dont know what to think could we really have that love again me and him used to be best friends even though he liked me we were still friends i feel like he is my soulmate i can tell him anything i have werid dreams of the future about me and him so dose he really love me again or using me

Tags: best friends, dreams, girlfriend, heart, love, Soulmate, strong feeling, texts

History is:

In Feb this year I caught my husband cheating with a woman for a whole year and apparently he was on the verge of leaving me for her but we worked through it. He swore that was it with her. Although he said he had loved her. She sent me all his messages and texts and IMs and in these, he expressed his love for her, said he didn’t want to be with me, I was sexless and cold, but SHE was vibrant, sexy and made him feel loved and able to love again.

After I found out, he cut her off and was horrible to her. He also denied he "meant" what he said in the years’ worth of those messages. BUT –

He went back to her many many times over 6 months, after he promised me that he would cut her out of his life for good – most recently in August when he went to her work, asked the guard to call her down, she got into his van to hear him out ..

The next thing you know, my husband is arrested for ’sexual assault’ in September. He was finally released without charge 2 weeks ago, and that was that, but they have been warned to stay away from each other.

TWO WEEKS AGO:

I have found out via a very reliable source, that he drove past her as she walked home from work to the station – IMPORTANT- they both work in the same zip code, he is a driver – he saw her, stared, and apparently he parked right whereby he knew she would be walking past.

Minutes later she indeed walked past, and his van was right there, and he caught her gaze and made sure to hold onto it until she disappeared from his view.

I am sure he genuinely had a job/pickup/collection, but answer me this: why did he park right by where she would be walking? I happen to know there are PLENTY OF SIDE STREETS on that road so why did he park up in the main bit where she would be passing (entrance to the metro)

Why didn’t he just think ‘f*** her’ and park in a side street and not look at her?

TODAY:

I was told again that MY HUSBAND WATCHED HER WALK AGAIN, AT THE EXACT SAME SPOT. THIS TIME HE WAS SMILING AT HER.

Now I don’t know what kind of smile – was it "haha, you didn’t get me jailed" or "hi!" or what?

Apparently she stopped a few meters away, texted something to someone, and carried on walking.

Now – he did NOT attempt to speak to her, nor did he leave his van at any point.

Can I just put this down to the fact he has a collection in that street? (which I know as fact) Why does he not attempt any contact?

Tags: Caught Cheating, gaze, Husband Cheating, ims, job, love, metro, Mistress, quot, sexual assault, side street, side streets, texts, verge, zip code

I’m 29 and dating a 35 year old man who is about to finalize his divorce. They have been separated for several months. He has 2 step children that he loves dearly and he has been a father figure to them most of their lives. The end of his marriage was due to several things – lack of affection, wife was alcoholic (even got arrested twice), verbal abuse (from her when she was drunk), and to add insult to injury she had an affair and told him about it.

He tells me he loves me, that I’ve spoiled him by treating him so well, that I’ve really helped his confidence and that I’m the best woman he’s ever known……sounds great right?

Well, anytime I hang out with him, his phone is blowing up – texts, calls, from the ex wife. She doesn’t know about me because he’s afraid she will take the kids away since he has no legal rights as a step parent. Whenever she doesn’t get her way from him – like asking him to go grab a beer with her and hang out because she’s "bored" – she starts threatening him, telling him she’s going to let his dog loose, and "you’re not going to see the boys again!"….highly manipulative. He hasn’t ever given in to her threats when he’s been around me, but he still very much "plays" nice with her.

Its getting really irritating to be hanging out with him and his phone starts blowing up with texts, etc. I don’t know why he can’t just tell her that he’s with friends even if he’s afraid to let her know that he’s started dating already. Which is ironic since SHE is still dating the guy she had an affair with – and she talks about that relationship to him. Yet – he’s afraid to tell her the truth.

To put it bluntly – I think she has him by the balls. He is a very rational, calm, nice guy – and she’s the complete opposite. I think she knows that she will always have him right where she wants him because he loves her boys so much. I’m mad at him now for allowing her to have so much control over him. But I realize that isn’t my problem to deal with or handle…..

The one thing I know I DO have control over is whether or not I want to continue to see him. I’m starting to feel like he has way too much baggage for me to want to deal with right now. I don’t want a guy who is p#ssy whipped by his ex wife who treated him like crap.

What do you think? Am I not being understanding enough?? I have NEVER complained to him about this – I have always stayed out of their business because I feel it’s not my right. But I’m annoyed.

To knowguy: I’m using "crude" terminology just to get to my point faster. I feel that I have been very understanding with him. Now I’m feeling fed up. I wouldn’t ever tell him "hey you p#ssy whipped jerk, grow a pair!"….I’m putting it bluntly for you all.

Tags: affection, balls, best woman, confidence, divorce, father figure, Insult, insult to injury, marriage, nice guy, old man, relationship, Step Children, texts, truth, verbal abuse

1. we went home drunk together and had sex the night we met.
2. 1.5 months later, he asked me to be his girlfriend
3. he wants me to meet his dad and vice-versa
4. we have frequent and amazing sex and he tells me im beautiful often
5. he says he misses me a lot and texts me every day from work and stays w me almost every night
6.we seem to only really hang out w. his friends since mine dont know him but his friends are mutual friends w. me
7. today when he left for work he seemed reluctant to kiss me and just sorta walked out…
8. the past week or so i feel like hes been a little more distant

sometimes i can be insecure and over-analyze things and think i did something wrong. so whats going on?

Tags: 5 months, amazing sex, dad, girlfriend, mutual friends, texts

How do you break up with someone you love? Break up with your boyfriend can be the most devastating thing in your life if you were truly in love. How can you get through this situation?

First of all, you need to determine whether the relationship is truly over. There are a number of ways to get an ex boyfriend back.

You don’t want to chase him. You want to give him some space, especially in the first days after a break up. So, don’t pester him with calls or texts. Instead, let him call you.

If he doesn’t contact you right away, don’t stress about it. Instead, after about a week, call him yourself. But, keep it casual. Don’t go all weepy on him and ask him to get back together. Also, keep it short. Five or ten minutes should suffice.

If you are still in love after this amount of time, you need to consider making more fundamental changes.

For instance, do you need a makeover? Would a new hairstyle or new clothes attract him back? Do you need to lose a few pounds?

Also, consider whether there were aspects of your personality that drove him away. Were you always nagging him? Did you drop all of your own friends and hang around with him exclusively? You may have been crowding him.

If you have identified areas where you can change, you need to do them. It may take time, but if he is truly in love, break up won’t last.

But, you also have to be prepared to move on. Fortunately, any changes you make to win your ex boyfriend back will also help you attract a new guy. For instance, learning not to nag a man will help you keep any new boyfriend. And, your new more glamorous self will be sure to attract lots of attention.

Use the time between boyfriends to find out what you really want in a man as well. What was it that attracted you to your ex? Did these qualities hold on over time or did they annoy you after a while? Did you go for someone on the basis of looks only to find out that made for a very vain man? Did you like his sarcastic sense of humor only to find out that he turned it on you?

You should also use this time between boyfriends to figure out what you want in yourself. What can you improve – not for the sake of a guy – but to make the quality of your own life better? This may mean getting back in touch with your girlfriends, taking up a class, or going to church again.

Remember, a love break up do happen. Sometimes you can get back together and sometimes you can’t. The important thing is to be able to roll with the punches and move on to the newer, better you.

Tags: Break, Chase, love, relationship, T Amp, texts

In the past I’ve had issues with trusting my bf. I guess it was my fault for going through his phone and finding texts from another female. I just want to know how can i get past feeling like he always up to something or should i just let this relationship go?

Tags: bf, relationship, texts, Trust Relationship

I’ve been with my girlfriend for close to 9 years and know she says she feels trapped. I don’t want to lose her, how can I save our relationship?

Let me start with some background info:
For the first 6 years of our relationship everything was great but the last 3 have been weird. Let me tell you when the problems started. It all started in 2007 when she started acting funny and being real secretive. She would come up with some weird stories when I would ask her stuff and I noticed she started taking her phone every she went. One time I took a look at her phone because I would always see her textn’ and then start acting funny. When I looked at the text messages, it was empty. She erased all the messages and when I asked her why, she replied "to make space". That sounded like bull to me but I love and trust her so I let it go. A couple months down the line it continued so I once again took a look at her phone and this time I saw all these flirtatious texts with another guy. Nothing bad but real flirty. The guy new me, which made it worse but I saw in the texts that he said "if anything happened and me and my girl would break up then he would make his move but that he wished us the best". When I confronted her she got scared and said that she was just messing with his feeling and that nothing happened. I believed it due to the content of sum of the messages and left it alone. Later down the line she was still acting the same and so I start thinking that she is cheating on me. A few weeks later I run into a girl I use to mess with before me and my girl started dating and we started talking in a friendly way. The girl knew I had a a girlfriend but one day the girl wanted to take it one step further. I thought to myself, "my girl is probably doing something with some other guy and I’m here being faithful like a dummy". So I let the girl give me oral sex…It only happened a few times but I did let it happened. Me and this girl messed around from 2007 to January 2008, but in that time we only fooled around once every couple of months and usually it would be around the time my girl and I would stop talking because she was being weird.

Now it gets bad…….

My girlfriend ends up finding out that me and this girl were messing around. She ends up talking to the girl I messed with but the girl makes up this story and tells my girl that we did more then ever really happened and acted like she didn’t know I had a girlfriend. This girl lied to my girl and was trying to sabotage the relationship between me and my girl. My girl confronts me and when Im about to tell her the truth she says something and I start thinking of all the times I would ask her things and she would just say NO and probably be lying. So I denied it and we ended up breaking up. I later find out that she wasn’t cheating on me and now I felt stupid. So around May I call her and confess. That’s when we started talking and hanging out as friends again. We are both college students, so while we were still not boyfriend and girlfriend but just friends, we enrolled in most of the same classes which let us see more of each other and get closer. In August 2008 we ended up getting back together. It was weird at at first but around October 2008 everything got better and we were in love all over again. We went on two trips towards the end of 2008 and once we came back things were fine. Then in February 2009 she started getting distant and not holding my hand as much and not cuddling as much as we usually do(Yes we still cuddled) .She even started kissing me less. It just got worse and worse everyday. I tried to find out what was wrong but could never get anything out of her. I tried to make things right and fix things but it wasn’t working. Finally at the end of March 2009 we had got into a discussion on the phone(not a fight nor argument) and she told me that she felt trapped in our relationship and that the only reason she was still with me was because I wanted to be with and she loved me to much to hurt me. She told me that she didn’t know why she felt that way but that she read something online and she said she needs to grow and find herself without me in her life. I asked her what difference does it make if I’m not there? She said she didn’t know. I told her that I can help her and that if she wanted we could go to counseling but she just said forget it, lets just stay together so I can be happy. I didn’t like that response but I took it for the time being because I didn’t want to lose her. Later when I saw her in person that day I wanted to talk but she didn’t want to talk at all. Every time I tried to talk to her about it later down the line she would just ignore me. Things started to calm down about two weeks after but then it took a turn for the worse. On April 4th 2009 I went out clubbing with her on sum friends. I let her do her thing and let her hang out with her friends while I chilled with mine at the club. You know, I didn’t want to rui

Tags: 6 years, Acting, background info, Funny, girlfriend, oral sex, Phone 101, quot, relationship, text messages, texts

Me and my boyfriend had been going out for around 2 months, and he dumped me for this other chic who apparntly was way skinnier than me. He keeps texting me and telling me how much skinnier she is than me and calls me fat and a whore and stuff. Im 40 kgs so im confused..
i dont reply to any of his texts, or call him or anything.

Tags: Ex Boyfriend, Fat Whore, kgs, texts, whore

my ex told me that he wanted us to be back together again. but idk if he really means it or not. he like never texts me or anything but i always catch him staring/looking at me in class…. does he want to get back together or not?

Tags: Ex Boyfriend, texts

I dont want to appear desperate to my ex but i would like us to get back together. I suggested we be friends and he agreed. He sends me texts messages and e-mails to tell me he still thinks about me an wants the best for me but I want more than just a friendship. Any ideas to get him to want to be back in a relationship with me?

Tags: Ex Boyfriend, friendship, relationship, texts

Is it possible that memories of a persoan you love dearly can keep you from healing the broken heart.
i put all my pictures of us away and deleted all our texts and facebook and stuff but its still been 3 years
and kobezo memories are also usualy mental

Tags: 3 years, broken heart, facebook, memories, texts