My boyfriend and I were together for about 10 months. I broke up with him 3 weeks ago. I didn’t want to, but he stopped talking to me so much. He would text me about once every week for the past month. He lives 4 hours away and hasn’t come to see me in 3 months because we have both been busy. However, he told me he would come see me 2 months ago and we made plans. He didn’t come. Two days before he was supposed to come he tells me that he doesn’t have the money because he just bought a “crotch rocket.” I was upset with him at first but I just let it slide. Then we made plans for the next month. One week before he was supposed to come, he tells me he can’t because he is busy. Once again, I am disappointed. I can’t go up and see him because I don’t have a car (I’m in college and he is a few years older). Then, he stops talking to me, as I mentioned earlier. I’m so in love with him so I didn’t want to give up on him but I wondered “what is going on?” I start thinking that maybe he’s found someone else or he just doesn’t want me anymore, or something like that. So, eventually I just break up with him because he kept telling me “I’ll come see you. I’ll talk to you more….” but would never do it. I didn’t even get an explanation. A week goes by and he doesn’t try to talk to me at all.
I then met a guy that I was kind of attracted to but he wasn’t the kind of guy I would want to date seriously. I was thinking that my ex and I were done for good. So, I had sex with the new guy twice. I did it because I was extremely hurt about the breakup and I thought it would help me get over my ex (it was not a smart thing to do, but I have learned my lesson to not have sex so soon after a breakup; I think everyone has to experience things before they learn). Three weeks after the breakup, my ex texts me. He says how sorry he is for everything and that he’s been having emotional problems because his grandfather was in the hospital and his aunt just found out that she has less than a year to live. I completely understood and asked if he would keep talking to me on a more regular basis, but we didn’t get back together. He asked if I had been doing things with other guys and I said no. I shouldn’t have lied though. Like 3 days later I told him that I actually had been with another guy. He got really upset and acted like I cheated on him. I knew it would hurt him but I explained how I had been feeling about him. He didn’t forgive me and told me “whatever, I hope you enjoyed it.”
So he asked me to leave him alone, and I have. I want him back though. I would never cheat on him if we were dating and I’ll never do something like that again. I honestly feel like I want to be with him for the rest of my life, so I don’t want us to be ruined forever. It makes it so difficult because we live far apart. What should I do or say to make him forgive me?

Tags: 10 months, crotch rocket, emotional problems, love, money, Money 98, texts

to put it short, me and my ex-boyfriend (long distance) were together for over a year but have been broken up for about 2 months now. he kind of changed for the worst (drugs and drinking) lately yet i still love him.. whenever he talks to me nowdays (random, short texts) he usually is just very sarcastic and doesn’t take me seriously, at least not from what i see. im a sophomore in high school and he’ll be starting his first year of college in the fall. the other night we texted eachother until about 3 in the morning and he randomly said that he missed the special moments we’ve had but then changed the subject. from what i can see anyway it appears he’s moved on but i was just wondering if you think there is ANY chance in h*ll of getting back together with him, with what he said the other night? ive done the begging and ive kinda just given up lately.. i might sound really silly but we really did love eachother alot back then and i at least dont want him to just forget about me. help!!
p.s. – towards the end of our relationship, he kind of got new friends which i think is the main reason for his recent drug and drinking marathon – he used to do that stuff before we went out, but he knew i disapproved, so he quit but now he’s started again. and i just have this state of mind that he IS in college now and all he’s interested in now is some one night stands with a bunch of random girls and he is for sure going to wonder what the heck he was doing with someone over 1,000 miles away from him .. yeah

Tags: drugs, eachother, Ex Boyfriend, long distance, love, marathon, new friends, random girls, recent drug, relationship, sophomore, texts, what the heck

when she won’t answer my calls, emails, or texts? I’ve even tried calling her parents at their work, but they keep ignoring my phone calls. I’m sitting outside of her house right now in my car and I’m typing this on my blackberry. What should I say to her when she gets home from work this evening? I plan on ambushing her as soon sa she gets out of her car.

Tags: blackberry, girlfriend, Old Son, parents, phone calls, texts, Typing

Heyy guys (:
im really a confused point right now about this guy.
im a 16 year old girl and this guy,chris is 19. We aren’t in a relationship, but we are "dedicated" to eachother. It’s been like this for a few months,almost a year.I could say that I love him.Or at least, I’ve fallen extremely hard for him. We met over the summer in my mom’s home country, his family and my family are close. I live in new york and he lives in vegas.I’m in high school and he’s in the air force, working.He’s the sweetest guy anyone could ever ask for.He calls me almost everyday, he texts me every morning, and etc.he tells me everything,he tells me if he’s going out with friends to a party, i do actually trust him.my family also approves and so does his.About a month ago, he started to ignore me…turned out he got in trouble with his chief AND his ex was trying to get back with him…he was distancing himself from me until the problem with his ex would be solved.I actually understand why he would distance himself from me while going through that. I did tell him though that he needed to trust me and that he could tell me anything, cuz this is the time to prove to eachother that something can maybe develop in the future, if we trust eachother. So, after that everything was okay. Then starting last week…he stopped calling again…he texted every now and then. I do understand that he’s busy, but it made me think alot.especially about the future.He also was suppose to come visit me during this spring break, but his boss didnt approve, which of course made me sad.I do understand though.Its just…i think…we’re at different point in our lives.If he doesnt call me, even is he is busy, how can I contact him and count on him if i need him during a crisis.He also opened up to me about his past….about everything…he’s only had 2 girlfriends…he told me he did cheat on his first gf when they were going thru problems…he admitted it was wrong…so i mean, people make mistakes…but how can i trust him. I feel like i have to let him go, but I can’t. I never wanna lose him. He said he would "wait for me" until i finish high school….but thats a few years ahead…i dont think we could both wait that long..but if we get together now, he’s 3,000 miles away,im in high school with the temptation of other guys,and just everything. I do care and love him, though. Dont know what to do :/

Tags: air force, boss, different point, gf, girlfriends, Live 105, love, M 105, Met, mom, old girl, Party 105, quot, relationship, spring break, sweetest guy, texts

I have been married going on 2 years now. We have a little girl who’s a year old. He’s a firefighter so he’s gone a lot, he has been telling me for the last two days (he’s at work) that this isn’t going to work because he can’t trust me. That he’s afraid I will do something again and that will mess his life up, so he doesn’t want to chance it. When we were first married I made a lot of mistakes. I was never unfaithful so that’s not it, but I did lie about what I was doing. He was controlling and I wanted my life to stay the same, So I would lie about everything.. Hanging out with friends, going to my Parents, shopping ect. I got caught and we separated for awhile but, he said we’ll work it out as long as I work on change. And I have, I’m so proud of myself because I have cut the wrong people out and that I am actually doing what I need to do. We seemed to be doing good the last few months. Then all of the sudden.. BOOM! He texts me and tells me he can’t trust me and won’t chance it. I love him very much and our marriage means the world to me along with our family. I want this to work and marriage is hard and I understand that. What should I do? How do I show he can trust me?
I don’t want to divorce, but it seems he wants to. He comes home tomorrow am and I’m just dreading it.

Tags: boom, firefighter, home tomorrow, little girl, marriage, parents, texts