I was with this guy for three months, I really liked him so much. I never felt this connection with anyone before.

I was very distant I admit but it’s because he was the first and this is my personality, it takes me time to get comfrotable with a person. And then I started becoming comfrotable. A few things happened and we decided to break it off, mostly he decided. But he said we should stay friends. I can’t stay friends, I tried but I can’t – I like him way too much to think of him as a friend only.

I tried getting back together, I thought we were going in the right direction but then he insisted it was only friendship.I decided to stop calling him, but it is so hard. It’s been two days and I cannot stop crying.

I really thought we clicked, and I think I had started to fall in love. Now I have to live with the idea that he’s probably going after some other girl and that he moved on while here I am constantly thinking about him. IT IS HARD. Especially when it is not easy to find a good guy where I come from, they’re all immature players.

For anyone who has gone through this, how long will it take for me to forget, I can’t stand this feeling anymore!!
and BTW, I can’t even make myself go out at night or anything. I know I will be in a bad mood only thinking about him, and it won’t be fair for my friends to endure with me.

And every place remind me of something about him. I would just rather be home being sad, than going out and thinking about him constantly.

How can I get over this??

Tags: bad mood, broken heart, friendship, going in the right direction, love, personality, Stay Friends, three months

My ex broke up with me three months ago. He was my first bf I’m still upset over it. He’s moved on to a new girl and he broke up with me cause i liked him more than he liked me. I’m also going off to college in the fall. How to i start over? Become independent again?

Tags: bf, How To Mend A Broken Heart, Independent, new girl, three months

She has a order of protection on me, but I think she still cares. We were together for 2yrs. She said She was the best thing that ever happen to me. I was never abusive and threaten to her. Three months has gone by, I can’t email her ,text her or call, or go around her. Is ther anyhting I can do if I want her back?

Tags: anyhting, email, order of protection, three months

About three months ago my boyfriend broke up with me because his mates told him that he should, since then he has told me that he still likes me and was thinking about asking me out.
But then he started going out with another girl and is saying on his MSN he likes someone else .
Please help I am still in love with my boyfriend and I want to be with him again, because he might be the only boy to ever go out with me again , beacuse every one else thinks I’m ugly .
Plz help!

Tags: Beacuse, love, mates, Msn, three months, Ugly

I just ended a four year relationship four days ago and I can’t stop thinking about him. I want him back or else I think I do…..he started talking to this girl over the internet from Ohio three months ago and says that he is in love with her she is married and hasnt told her husband about my ex..they havent even met wtf….how can I get him back what do i do…HELP…my life feels like its over

Tags: Hasnt, how do you heal a broken heart, love, Met, relationship, three months

Three months ago, my wife and I got married. We were doing just fine. Until she started stripping. I wasn’t ok with it, but she started doing it with a friend. I was never ok with it, but I accepted it because I love my wife more than anything in this world. And it was her decision. But a little over two weeks ago, she had a break down after telling her dad what she was doing. She started blaming me for her stripping because of where I work. I dont make enough money where I work to comfortably support us. Which is why she started stripping. Before we got married, I had promised her I’d get a new job. But I kept putting it off. I had every intention of getting a new job, but I just put it off. And that happened a couple of times. This time, she left. She is staying at a friends house and has been ever since. Ive changed the way I do things. I use to be lazy, but Ive changed that. Im taking resposibility and doing things that I should have done a long time ago. I sold my truck, so 300$ a month goes back into our pockets. Ive been constantly been looking for a job. Got a couple different options coming up. one possibly with the school system. She wont come home because she is afraid I’ll quit searching for a job. And she doesnt trust me when I tell her that I promise to do everything I say im going to do. But after what Ive done, can you blame her? Saturday, she talked to me and said, she wanted an Anullment. But a couple hours later, she tells me that she is going to hold off on the anullement because she loves me. And I know she does. She said dont call or txt her. She’ll call me. She called me after 3 days. Today. She said she was calling to hear my voice and to see how the job search was going. ive been looking for a Fulltime job that pays more than minimum wage for over 2 weeks now. Its hard to find somthing like that. And believe me, ive been looking as hard as I can. I have a few connections and maybe able to get a job with the School System here as a Custodial/Maintanence engineer. I guess you could say, Janitor. Im in college but they are all online classes. Thank god. But i cant convince her to come home and let me show her how much ive changed. And im afraid that if I cant get this job fast, she’ll get tired and leave for good. I love my wife. I know ive made some mistakes in the past. But I am human. And i want to make up for all that. But How can I show her if she isnt home and I cant call her? Any suggestions?

Tags: anullment, anything in this world, couple hours, cust, dad, enough money, fulltime job, intention, job, job search, long time, looking for a job, love, marriage, minimum wage, money, new job, pockets, searching for a job, Somthing, Stripping, three months

What is the best way to get over someone, a love, that you have for someone? You cant someone love you or care for you if they dont. This seems to all date back to around april 25th, I am 19 and believe in karma, i dated this one guy for around 3 years and we had our ups and downs but in the end i was the wrong one in the end, since i maybe took things too far and cheated after i found out he did, i was much younger then and had learned my lesson, but i guess that saying is true that everything comes full circle and i found myself in a relationship with a 23 year old guy, cute and great dancer, he has cancer and so has some emtoional insecure issues, but i looked past all of that, and when i first met him he had a great personality. Things started to go from great to bad, when fights happened more and more and then they started to get physicla he never "hit me" but he would push me and shove me, hold me aganist the wall and hold my head straight so i would look at him, id be crying and i think after he snapped out of it and realized what he was actually doing, he would try to kiss me and tell me he loves me and is sorry and that i should know how he gets and shouldnt bring him to my level, so then i began seeing it as though it was my job to not piss him off, but all throughout the time, i am losing myself, forgetting the values and morals that i was instilled with as a child, self respect, the true meaning of love, and knowing who you are. so we fly by three months, the same thing happens make ups break ups and even talks about having a baby. Yet in the end he broke up with me, saying that the fighting was getting to be too much and i was immature and blah blah blah! so he promises me that there is no other girl, and that he is single and is going to stay that way, yet i later find out that he is now with some girl, and she is older than me and he said hes with her because she is soooo mature and has her own apt. and he spends the night there all the time. and that im annoying, yet i was the one who was there for him through all his down moments, took his abuse, bought him a tv, well in advance since he now owes me the money and is telling me that i need to not call him and wait for him to text me to see when i can go get hte money. basically he is treating me like how i treated my x, i dont need anyone to say its karma because maybe it is and maybe it isnt, i just need ANSWERs and maybe some advice.
Thanks
Ive asked family and friends, but WhAT DO YOu have to say?
THANKS!

Tags: 3 years, blah blah, broken heart, cancer, dancer, fly, Full Circle, great personality, having a baby, job, love, relationship, self respect, three months, true meaning of love, ups, ups and downs, values and morals

A little over three months ago, my girlfriend broke up with me. I made many mistakes when she first broke up with me. I tried convincing her to take me back, I acted all depressed, I contacted her and asked her to hang out, etc.

I haven’t tried to ask her to spend time with me for over a month now. What should I do at this point?

Tags: ex girlfriend, girlfriend, three months

My ex and I broke up a little over 3 months ago in September. We were together for 1 yr and 3 months. We have been through a lot in that time though. We technically traveled the world together as she studied in France while I studied in Spain. Our split was mainly because there was a lot of pressure from our relationship because it progressed faster than we had planned and felt like we were very involved in each others lives. I guess you can say to a point where the appreciation and excitement of one another was losing its spark. Also the distance wasn’t helping when we were away from each other during our school semesters. Anyways when we broke up she studied one more semester abroad in Italy and I was here in the U.S. I stopped contact with her during the three months because I didn’t want to push her away by possibly making her feel any guilt from the separation and which I also thought was the best move for me regardless. During the 3 months I have not thought about her that much really and have been going out and enjoying the single life as you may say. Been able to move on from this instead of moping and feeling depressed from it, which I know I should of been doing anyways. So I have been fine and I know she had been fine especially being away from home.

Now she had come back home a couple weeks ago and I have seen her for the first time. I was very very happy to just see her and I had missed her very much. We got together a couple times just to catch up a little bit. One of the last times we had spoke, we kind of just spoke about how our relationship was before and how things may have been the cause of our separation. However I had asked the question of her possibly dating me again sometime in the future and she said maybe but that she wasn’t sure and that she has been happy being single. But our conversation got cut off after that cause we both had places to be at. A few days later I was invited by one of her best friends to her best friends Birthday Party. I had attended with a couple of my friends that they knew and we hung out with them and had a good time for the most part. For me it was the first time I had really felt the feeling again of really missing being her Man/ boyfriend and it was starting to kill me. I didn’t really interact with her too much that night but my friends had more than me. At the end of the night when I said goodbye I told her that she looked great and that it was nice seeing her. And she then informed me that she was wearing the dress that I had bought her before. Then we had a big hug and then an unexpected almost near kiss goodbye. Really wanted too but didn’t think it was right to. But my friends were all saying that they saw something that night. Maybe little indications of interests still there.

The next day I tried seeing if she wanted to hang out later that night. First she wasn’t able to do anything cause she had things to finish up and wasn’t sure if she felt like going out. Then I had mentioned that she should let me take her out once. After that she had said that our conversation that we had before the other day had gotten cutoff and that maybe we should get together and talk about it. So I said sure and then she asked to meet her at like a starbucks. Then before I was on my way she had mentioned that she didn’t want to leave the house and if I wanted to just go over her house instead. So I did. We spoke about what was going on between us and I guess you can say that she has been happy being single and isn’t quite looking to be in a relationship, however we had agreed to "Date" each other though. She admitted that being back home, that it is weird not hanging out with me when she is home or getting back from work and what not. Now she said she was afraid to go through with just dating because she thought that I wouldn’t be able to just date. However I felt like there was more to it than just being worried about me. But I’m unsure. So I guess you can say that we are technically dating now. We have hung out only a couple times now but when we do it feels just like how it used to be before when we were together. And I feel she tries to hold herself back at times but then she can’t at times as well and just goes with it. However we still now kiss each other at times and it seems cool for the most part. But for me I’m starting to feel the feelings that I once had for this girl. I loved her very much and I still do love her. Now I feel stuck in my head and what to think. I want to be back with her but at the same time I have no clue on how she feels because its like mixed signs.

My friends have told me that I am in a good spot and that I shouldn’t be worrying because they feel that she might be having similar feelings as well but she may be afraid from it as well. I just don’t know what to do and how I might be able to go about to possibly getting her back. I need some help, advice, something. If some of y’all can help me that would be great. It’s just tha

Tags: best friends, birthday party, couple times, couple weeks, ex girlfriend, excitement, few days, friends birthday, Guess, guilt, italy, little bit, relationship, school semesters, single life, spain, three months

We broke up three months ago. We talked a couple of times since then. And always she said that she hopes everything will be ok with me.
Is it possible to get her back after this much time? Or even a year?

Tags: ex girlfriend, three months

Husband and I work together we are partners in a hotel. Well he moved out of our room about three months ago (we live at the hotel) I was devastated..long story short I recently found out he is in a relationship with a 21 year old housekeeper he is 46 I am 32 he said they are in love. we were together for 9 years and i am just so angry and hurt and do not know how to get over these feelings of failure, i just want the pain to stop help any advice how do i get over him?

Tags: failure, feelings, housekeeper, love, relationship, three months

My ex is currently owes over three months in back child support. He just stopped paying and has had every excuse in the book. He is getting ready to go back in the army after ten years out. Will the army let him re-enlist and leave if they know he owes this money? I am currently awaiting documentation back from the court in regards to this matter, and was planning on taking it to an attorney. But now I am afraid he will be able to get out of town before I can do this. Do I need to make the army aware of this? Will it matter to them? It is a violation of a court order.

Tags: army, court order, excuse, money, three months