i met a guy about 7 yrs ago and after about 6 months of us meeting he asked me out..at that time i said no because his ex-wife was still around lots they do have children together so i understood. about 2 yrs ago we started dating and like every relationship we have our ups and downs..recently his ex called me to let me know that on their anniversary he called her to say happy anniversary to her and asked her not to tell me cause i would be mad..i did confront him with it and his response was that he did not know why he did it..i asked him if he still loved her and he said no ii also asked if he wanted to be with her and he said no..the other things that i am aware of is that he will go to her house on occasions to see the children so he says and will go into her home and make himself at home but if i am with him he will pretend like he can’t stand her..my question is "should i drop him" or should i quit looking into things too far.maybe it is innocent.his sis says theres nothin there
i sure appreciate all the answers so far. let me add that the children involved here are 16 and 18..and until 2 years ago he was still sleeping with his ex saying that it’s a man thing they have to get it somewhere.when he does go to his exs house it is after work or on a day off and i have no idea where he is until one of his kids calls asking if i miss thier dad.i know the kids want the parents back together and that is all good. i still trusted this man after the visits happened and until a couple days ago things were cool. her called changed everything.i still love him but i do not know if i can or should trust him.especially where she is involved.i don’t think i am jealous at all i understand the relationship with his kids. we do very little together and i find he treats our home like a bed and breakfast motel. we do not have sex cause i am not sure that he is not sleeping with her still and i have told him that.maybe i need to move on with my life. thanx all..
the home of hers that he is making himself at home in is not the family home…they both moved to different houses. she is also in a relationship with another man and would never tell him about her ex calling her cause the new boyfriend would leave. also they have been apart for 18 years now..IS THERE STILL AN ANNIVERSARY THERE?? i do believe she is causing some problems with me and her ex but it is not all her fault. i have not heard anything about where any kind of blame comes onto my man. maybe there is none..am i blonde and naive?
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