its been 1 year of our relationship..and now its become pretty monotonous..the spark or charm which was there before seems to have gone..my bf does not call as frequently as he used 2 before,he doesn’t always do what i tell him 2 do…he tries both but he does have problems..we have had fights before..but we appologised and stuff..thats ok..but its like he is bored of me..and sometimes even i feel like having an affair with some other guy..he takes me for granted..he knows i am there for him..he thinks he can do whatever he likes…please tell me how i can make him fall in love with me all over again…just like the 1st time it happened..i wanna arouse the same urgency in him as there was before…please help..thank you
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Why would i leave someoen i feel happy with? I do really feel happy and alive with a woman i have been with for the last 8 months. Happy all the time..well no…liek any relationship their are those times.
But just the fact that she needs residency here in australia, and doesnt want to go home to nepal has made me think a little too much till my little brain starst to hurt. She has 2 kids, and ha sbeen married for 15 years b4 and the pain of that breakup and the urgency to stay in oz is unbelievable. I cant just have a relationship with her anymore as she needs to stay and wants to move to next phase. Pressure yes…my head in sore and nerves are shakey to a point that i may not be able to work if i leave her. OUCH!!!…I dont have tiem to be with her and find out more…….her boys 13 and 16 are comign here on a student visa here this year..well the older on eis first then the second one when he is old enough…she rings me every single hour of the day…we have issues…hurt
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My BF of 1-yr appears to be going thru a rough time right now. He broke up with me 3 weeks ago during an argument over the phone. It was one of those arguments where he just seems to not have any urgency when it comes to our making plans.
Anyway, about a week after breaking up, he told me that the following had happened: 1st, while at work, he received a threatening call from a guy telling him to leave his woman alone; my BF said he thought it was a joke by one of his boys, but that turned out not to be the case. 2nd, supposedly the man who threatened him has been calling his work place so much that his desk phone has been constantly ringing & disturbing his co-workers. He got into hot water with his boss and Security about the phone calls. And lastly, his home was broken into. I cannot believe all this occurred in a week’s time. It seems crazy!!
I went over to see how he was doing today, and it was apparent that he is not sleeping or eating, and just looks like things are taking a toll on him. But, he wanted to discuss our situation. I told him that I am here for him and didn’t want to leave him all alone to deal with all of this. His response to me was that for right now, we needed to end the relationship because it’s all too stressful at the moment. I told him I’d do whatever he needs, but wished we could just take space from one another rather than call it quits. I am very upset and I cannot understand it. We were literally standing there hugging, kissing and saying good-bye all the while saying we love each other. Can anyone tell me why he’d want to just let our relationship go and risk losing it forever, rather than just taking space?
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