What is the best way to get over someone, a love, that you have for someone? You cant someone love you or care for you if they dont. This seems to all date back to around april 25th, I am 19 and believe in karma, i dated this one guy for around 3 years and we had our ups and downs but in the end i was the wrong one in the end, since i maybe took things too far and cheated after i found out he did, i was much younger then and had learned my lesson, but i guess that saying is true that everything comes full circle and i found myself in a relationship with a 23 year old guy, cute and great dancer, he has cancer and so has some emtoional insecure issues, but i looked past all of that, and when i first met him he had a great personality. Things started to go from great to bad, when fights happened more and more and then they started to get physicla he never "hit me" but he would push me and shove me, hold me aganist the wall and hold my head straight so i would look at him, id be crying and i think after he snapped out of it and realized what he was actually doing, he would try to kiss me and tell me he loves me and is sorry and that i should know how he gets and shouldnt bring him to my level, so then i began seeing it as though it was my job to not piss him off, but all throughout the time, i am losing myself, forgetting the values and morals that i was instilled with as a child, self respect, the true meaning of love, and knowing who you are. so we fly by three months, the same thing happens make ups break ups and even talks about having a baby. Yet in the end he broke up with me, saying that the fighting was getting to be too much and i was immature and blah blah blah! so he promises me that there is no other girl, and that he is single and is going to stay that way, yet i later find out that he is now with some girl, and she is older than me and he said hes with her because she is soooo mature and has her own apt. and he spends the night there all the time. and that im annoying, yet i was the one who was there for him through all his down moments, took his abuse, bought him a tv, well in advance since he now owes me the money and is telling me that i need to not call him and wait for him to text me to see when i can go get hte money. basically he is treating me like how i treated my x, i dont need anyone to say its karma because maybe it is and maybe it isnt, i just need ANSWERs and maybe some advice.
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Ive asked family and friends, but WhAT DO YOu have to say?
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I been with my bf for 3yrs and we have a baby together.we been having problems for awhile now,problems that I feel like anyone with half a brain could catch on to. He don’t call me when he’s out with friends,n I don’t mean call me every hr.but we have a kid and I expect for him to at least check up on us.I’m always calling first becuz if I didn’t he could go days without hearing from me.he say he wana marry me but idk.when where together things r great but once he’s gone I’m outa sight outa mind.I’m trying so hard with him and when I get upset he gets mad at me and flip it on me like he’s the victim.he don’t even try to make things righths just let it be so I piece the rElationship together.he gets paranoid and insecure thinking I’m cheatin and idk if it’s guilt cuz he could be cheating or because he know he’s not doing right.I really want us to work but I feel like he’s taking me for granted.what should I do because I really need Advice?
I spoke to him about this plenty of times and he’s says he’s gona change but it haven’t happened yet,he’s a great dad whenever our baby need something he’s there and he spend time with her when he take her on weekends,he just suck as a bf and Iknow he’s a good man and he wana change but something not allowing it. Idk if I’m settling because we have a kid but is hard finding someone who have the same values and morals as I do.and I feel like I’m giving him my all and I’m receiving nothing back.

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