Has anyone been here before? If so, I need your advice. My husband and I are on the verge of divorce. That is something I do not want, I want my family and for my husband to come back home. Does anyone know what to do/say? What scriptures to read? I don’t want to make matters worse by my actions and I know with the help of God anything is possible. Please help and God bless!

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I ask because he has made NO further attempts to contact her; I gather she is on holiday (at home, and he is working) but as far as I know, he has NOT contacted her. Assume this is the truth.

So – was their meeting last week just coincidence?

History is:

In Feb this year I caught my husband cheating with a woman for a whole year and apparently he was on the verge of leaving me for her but we worked through it. He swore that was it with her. Although he said he had loved her. She sent me all his messages and texts and IMs and in these, he expressed his love for her, said he didn’t want to be with me, I was sexless and cold, but SHE was vibrant, sexy and made him feel loved and able to love again.

After I found out, he cut her off and was horrible to her. He also denied he "meant" what he said in the years’ worth of those messages. BUT –

He went back to her many many times over 6 months, after he promised me that he would cut her out of his life for good – most recently in August when he went to her work, asked the guard to call her down, she got into his van to hear him out ..

The next thing you know, my husband is arrested for ‘sexual assault’ in September. He was finally released without charge 2 weeks ago, and that was that, but they have been warned to stay away from each other.

PRESENT DAY:

As some of you know, lately (last 2 weeks) he has watched her from his work van as she walks from her office to the station; he DOES genuinely have jobs in that street but he HAS watched her as opposed to hiding behind a newspaper as he sits in his van/looking away, etc.

This has happened 3 times in 3 weeks, and each time, he has stared, and she has walked on, not stopping.

THIS TIME, SHE STOPPED AND THEY TALKED.

I can’t believe it. If the sexual assault arrest has not made him hate her WHAT THE F*CK WILL???

This is what they talked about, which I know because his partner driver "felt I should know" – he was not there but was nearby -

Admitted to her that he HAD indeed been waiting for her to approach him all those times he was parked near her work, and asked why she had been "running past" him!
Apparently he "forgave" her for having him arrested.
He wished her a happy belated birthday.
He asked how her new house was going.
Oh this is good; he asked why he "could not find her" on Facebook.
He asked her ‘can I trust you now?’ (!!)
He said ‘will you let me wave at you if I drive past you?’
She told him another guy had got obsessed with her lately and he said "See I told you you were dangerous" – what does that mean?

Please can someone decipher the things he said to her,AND tell me why would he give her the time of day?

This was last Monday but even on Tuesday, apparently he passed her in his truck and beeped & waved at her!

I am concerned as to what he plans next.

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Ok so me and my girlfriend where going out for a bit more than a year befor we broke up. A few days befor we broke up we where in a fight and she started hanging out with this guy because she knows I don’t like him but a few days later she brokeup with m. Since then she stopped talking to him completaly actually she rilly doesn’t like him anymore but now she has a completaly new group of friends and I hate two of the girls with a pashion. We still talk and say we miss eachother and are on the verge of getting back together a few times but then something happens and we fight and stop talking for a day then were talking and repeat. But most of the tim the fight comes because she says she is gonna leave the two friends I hate behind so she can be with me we make plans to hangout at lunch (in school) and she doesn’t hangout with them all day but just befor we go to meet she goes and hangs out with the two girls again and I say she lied blah blah blah we get in a fight then the next day were getting along again. Right now were in a fight again because yesterday the same thin I described happened and when we where almost made up I foundout she lied to me about who she was with last night and it was a dif guy I don’t like her being around because of how he acts. So I hot mad and were fighting again and she said not to talk to her ever again but that was only emotions because it’s happened beor and I think if I tx her tomorrow she will be ok with me gain like it has been like… But this time the last txt sent was from me and I said basicly that she just used her last chance of picking er friends over me because Im gonna not talk to her and be indapendant and see what happens if she trys to makeup with me instead of me trying. Do you think I should do what I said about waiting? And what should I do to get her back? (and hopfully get rid of those two girls that are her new friends).

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I broke up with him because I just felt like he didn’t want to be bothered. I wasn’t sure if I should have but idk. When I brought this up to him (when I was only on the verge of breaking up with him) he said he didnt mean to act that way and i know he had priorities that should always come before a girl. I honestly can understand where he is coming from because I would never put a boy first on my list unless he was dying or we were "in love" or something but at least I gave him some of my time.
After I broke up with him my friend called him and asked him all types of stuff about our break up. (I know it wasnt very mature of me to have her do that but I knew he would tell her.) So anyways this is how the converstaion went:
My friend: What happened with you and?
Him: She dumped me. (He said it quick and kind of with attitude)
My friend: Why?
-Idk. I didnt even bother to ask. I was tired.
-Oh do you think yall are gonna get back together this summer?
-Idk. Maybe. No. I dont have enough time for gf. I have (listed all of his activities and then was like…) Im plannin on messin around anyways.(Okay idk if he was saying this because he was angry or what but it tore me up!)
-What about when school starts again?
-yea. maybe. idk. How do u know I wont go into the year with a gf already?! (He was rude about it. 4real!)
(then she pops the question)
-Do you still like her?
(Okay i coulda swore he said no. But she claims he said yeah. I doubt it. and that was the end of the conversation)
First I was convinced that I didnt need him but after sitting back and taking a look back at everything that happened (no im not saying that i need him) I realize how childish I was. Plus I didnt even know him that well. Okay I know thats not the best way to start a relationship but we met in school like everyone else I’ve ever dated. I just didnt know him that well to expect so much out of him (like deep conversations about life, affection, and a whole lotta stuff that i wasnt gonna get right off the bat). But thats the thing for some strange, unknown reason I still like him. He told me the things he was going through at home and pretty much with his life and honestly I wanted to cry for him. It was so sad. And sometimes I sit and think maybe he was just going through alot and wasnt really worried about a gf..maybe it was just his hormones or something kickin in. Or maybe he just didnt trust me enough to open up to me, which is also understandable. I dont plan on goin back out with him or anything but i dont want him dating anyone…esp someone i know. Is that weird? Maybe it’s just because I feel like the guys that have tried to tlk to me are not of my interest u know? they dont fit me. But yeah could you please tell me somethin.

Tags: affection, attitude, Break Up, conversations, converstaion, gf, idk, lotta stuff, love quot, Priorities, relationship, verge

Well you see i really like this guy and my so called friend is about to go out with him and i feel like i would die if that happend. But i really do love him it hurts so muh to think about it. How can i get over him. Help please im on verge of a breakdown

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