I’ve been out with this guy twice now. We are both 17 and he has already slept with 5 girls. I am a virgin. I really like his personality–he’s not like the uptight guys at my school. However, he keeps asking for sex. He says he won’t force me to do anything I don’t want to, but he is starting to persuade me and I’m not sure if I want to or not! I’m not adamant about waiting for sex, but I do want to be with a guy who isn’t just in it for the sex. He told me he had sex with his ex before dating her, but that she broke his heart 2 months ago and doesn’t think he can fall in love again. I’m making him work for it…I won’t have sex with him until I get to know him better and I told him that. I am so confused, I know this guy isn’t looking for anything serious, but why does he keep texting and hanging out with me?

Tags: Fall In Love, girls, heart, love, personality, Sex, Virgin

im having a really hard time dealing with this. My ex girlfriend broke up with me 3 1/2 months ago, and i really loved her. shes 17 and im 18, and im a freshman in a nearby college, and shes in high school still. well anyways, where both seeing other people, but i still want my ex. The guy shes seeing is no good, at all. he drinks, smokes, is expelled from school, he has scrubby long hair, and is her ex from a year ago. he originally broke up with her because she wasnt putting out, so he broke up with her for someone who would shortly after (almost like cheating to me lol) Her parents dont even like him, so she doesnt let her see him. Ive expressed the fact that i still like her, but she insists she likes this guy more, even tho she cant see him. Shes not even that type of girl either, she has so much in common with me, she doesnnt drink, smoke, shes a virgin, i just dont see why shes wants this in her life, shes setting herself up to be hurt again. I dont know how to deal with this. I want her back soo bad.

I love this girl alot, and i never told her, and i just want to hold her and tell her that:( Is there any way i can get her back? How do i get on the right track when talking to her, and show her that im better then this guy? and i really want her back, so any good advise you could give is really appreciated:)

Tags: Advice, Drinks, ex girlfriend, freshman, girl alot, hard time, long hair, nearby college, parents, seeing other people, tho, type of girl, Virgin

I was seeing a guy from work for the past 7 months…And yes he was married, no kids. He aburptly ended things on Monday when I said I wanted to go out with an old male friend of mine…this old friend and I had been intimate a few times in the 6yrs we have known each other. So this new guy goes and tells me he doesnt love me anymore and he wonders how many guys I have been with since he and I have been together. He said that my stories about other relationships before him are always changing. His wif was a virgin untill they married 15 yrs ago, She was 32 But how can he judge me and convict me of somethings I did before he was even in the picture?
I just don’t get how he could tell me he loves me one minute and then not the next minute…….And please dont say "He is a married man, what did you expect" I enjoyed what we had..
He says he cant handle the stress of living 2 different lives. And the topper he and I are like Beauty and the geek. Why is my heart broken? And how do I heal

Tags: 7 months, beauty and the geek, broken heart, Convict, different lives, heart, male friend, married man, old friend, relationships, stress, topper, untill, Virgin, wif

Ok we dated for two months & a month of it was long distance because he goes to college like an hour away & we completely trusted eachother! We never fought, ever! The other month of our relationship he was home for Christmas break and let’s just say he took my v card but he wasn’t a virgin..and on new years eve he wanted to go to a party where he went to college & asked me to go but i said no i wanted to stay home with my family & friends..so he comes back the next day and says we need to talk and says he seen his ex at the party and it brought back feelings and it wasnt fair to me and i was completely broken. They broke up because they fought nonstop and never really were happy I guess you could say but they were eachothers first so he says he loves her. A month after he breaks up with me there dating and its been like a week into it now and they are already fighting and i was talking to him tonight and he told me why they were fighting basically because he doesnt trust her and its long distance for them too and he told me that he knows he screwed me over but he loves her with his whole heart and no matter how much shit she puts him through he will always be stuck with her even if he does deserve better..and he told me i know you wouldnt do something like that but im with her and its not going to change..will he ever realize that he does deserve better and that he can actually trust me and want to be with me again???
They dated over 2 years ago and she just got out of a 2 year relationship is she just using him for a rebound??

Tags: amp, christmas, feelings, Guess, long distance, new years eve, rebound, relationship, Stay Home, Virgin, whole heart, Years Eve

this guy was in loveeeeee with me, he was so sweet and loved me just for who i was. to sum it up we’re both 18 he was the best guy i never thought i would find at this age, plus he was still a virgin. but at the time a few months ago i just wasn’t over someone else. i ended things with him and we stopped talking for 4 weeks then started talking again, he was still single and i started liking him but then all the sudden he has a gf now..i got upset and just cut him off even though he said he still wanted to be friends. we don’t speak anymore but we talk when we hang out with a mutual friend, i think i’ll be seeing him this saturday and i want to know how to win him back….i don’t care if he has a gf..they barely know each other and they just met in their dorms. i know he still has to have some feelings for me, how do i prove that i’m the one for him and how do i show him that i love him and still care about him? but not too forward and flirty, we’re just going ice skating.

Tags: Best Guy, dorms, Fall In Love, feelings, gf, mutual friend, Virgin