I’m 17 and my EX girlfriend sexted me last night wanting to get back together. We broke up because she was a virgin and didn’t wanna have sex with me. She has strong christian views. She told me she wanted to fuck me so bad and she is tried of being the good girl and wants to be a bad girl. I wanna get back together. However her parents our crazy religious nuts should we get back together? If we do what should i do about her parents?

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I’m a 19-year-old college girl, and for personal and religious reasons (I’m Christian), I’ve committed to remaining a virgin until my wedding night. I still want to date now, because naturally my body is encouraging me to have sex, and I want very much to fall in love and move toward that wedding night. The only trouble is that it seems most guys are accustomed to getting sex much earlier in a relationship than I’m willing to provide it, and I’m worried they’ll all get snatched up by girls who put out sooner.

Also, I hear so much talk about wanting to ensure "sexual compatibility" before marriage. This doesn’t really make sense to me because I’m thinking that if we have compatible sex drives, as well as similar morals and desires when it comes to sex (all of which we can find out just by talking), and we both have all functioning parts, there can’t be any real sexual incompatibility. Of course, I’m a virgin, so if I’m wrong on this, do tell. My point being that many people consider premarital sex common, and even practical.

So here’s the thing: I want a man who will respect my desire to save sex for marriage, who will be willing to marry without a "test run," and who will be patient enough to work with me on the honeymoon until I’m able to please him sexually. Are they still out there? If so, where can I find them? Are there any men on Y!A who are also waiting?
greatprincemichael, that was completely unhelpful. I’m already aware that most people in our society engage in premarital sex. If you read the question, I’m looking for someone to help me live up to my personal standards, not to scoff at them. A conservative church has not forced these values on me; I have chosen them myself based on my own personal interpretation of the Bible, and based on what I do and don’t want to experience in my life.

Thanks to everyone else for the wonderful answers! I really appreciate the suggestions, the encouragement, the personal experience, and the humour!

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I’m sick of his attitude towards me and his self-pitiness.
I love him, but I can’t take this anymore. I’m no longer happy with him.
He is a mental abuser and an accuser.
He’s always thinking I’m cheating on him and that I do not want him because he says he is too ugly for me. I’ve tried several times to save him from this pit he is burying himself in but he isn’t letting me anymore. And he even dares to question the number of boyfriends I’ve had in the past, because he thinks I am "too pretty". Damn it, he doesn’t even believe I am a virgin, because according to him, "I seem to have experience" whenever we were intimate.
So, what do you think I must do? Work this out with him like I’ve tried a million times in the past? Or let this go?

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I keep thinking bout all the girls he had sex with and how im not able to measure up to them in bed cause im a virgin and also im scared that he might think of them when we have sex cause i may not have big boobs like them and stuff. When i talk to him about it we always get into an argument and he says he hates his past and he doesnt want to talk bout it, he barely remembers the people he had sex with. How do i forgive him and why should i ? i kept my virginity for him. I do want this relationship badly, he has given up his country to come and live in mine. what should i do?

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