to put it short, me and my ex-boyfriend (long distance) were together for over a year but have been broken up for about 2 months now. he kind of changed for the worst (drugs and drinking) lately yet i still love him.. whenever he talks to me nowdays (random, short texts) he usually is just very sarcastic and doesn’t take me seriously, at least not from what i see. im a sophomore in high school and he’ll be starting his first year of college in the fall. the other night we texted eachother until about 3 in the morning and he randomly said that he missed the special moments we’ve had but then changed the subject. from what i can see anyway it appears he’s moved on but i was just wondering if you think there is ANY chance in h*ll of getting back together with him, with what he said the other night? ive done the begging and ive kinda just given up lately.. i might sound really silly but we really did love eachother alot back then and i at least dont want him to just forget about me. help!!
p.s. – towards the end of our relationship, he kind of got new friends which i think is the main reason for his recent drug and drinking marathon – he used to do that stuff before we went out, but he knew i disapproved, so he quit but now he’s started again. and i just have this state of mind that he IS in college now and all he’s interested in now is some one night stands with a bunch of random girls and he is for sure going to wonder what the heck he was doing with someone over 1,000 miles away from him .. yeah

Tags: drugs, eachother, Ex Boyfriend, long distance, love, marathon, new friends, random girls, recent drug, relationship, sophomore, texts, what the heck

me and my gf have been going out for about two months but i think she is going to dump me. There is this new kid our class and i have seen the way she looks at him, and a lot guys have been asking her to prom even though she already has me. Then also today she called me immature and wouldn’t talk to me the entire day. WHAT THE HECK SHOULD I DO!!!

Tags: gf, new kid, what the heck

Please Serious Answers Only, I am in need of some real and honest help.

My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days before Christmas. He says he is not happy with me, and we are not meant to be. I know he loves me, and he even said he still does, but it’s somthing he has to do.

We met on Jan 1st to talk and swap things. I wrote him a heartfelt letter and read it to him. He really had no emotion at all. I totally ruined my chances with him because I begged for him to not leave me, but I felt that it was the last chance I would ever see/talk to him at all. I was devastated.
We agreed to be friends, but i told him i just dont know if i can do that.

I have been really calm about everything lately, we casually talk on aim and hes actually pretty nice to me. But then yesterday somthing was really bothering me, so I brought it up. He was fine with the first statement, but when I said somthing else he totally ignored what I said. I feel that I just ruined my chances of ever talking to him again! I went ahead and apologized over message and I told him that I agree with the breakup, i know it’s for the best. I even went to say that I had some good news that I would like to share with him sometime…(which I thought would spark interest).
But he didnt respond to the message. So then I said " Well im going to get off here, have a good day" . I waited a minute and still no response. Now I feel completely stupid!

Did I ruin my chances of getting him back with that message I sent him? What do I do know? Do i just totally ignore him and wait to see if he ever says anything? Now I feel that I lost all hope, I know we are meant to be together, and we were even getting along this past weekend…what the heck do I do know? All hope is gone!

Have any of you went through breakups and got your ex back? If so, HOW?

Tags: aim, breakups, Calm, christmas, days before christmas, emotion, heartfelt letter, last chance, Met, what the heck